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    Mr Darcy’s Guide to Courtship: The Secrets of Seduction from Jane Austen’s Most Eligible Bachelor
    Mr Darcy’s Guide to Courtship: The Secrets of Seduction from Jane Austen’s Most Eligible Bachelor
    Mr Darcy’s Guide to Courtship: The Secrets of Seduction from Jane Austen’s Most Eligible Bachelor
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    Mr Darcy’s Guide to Courtship: The Secrets of Seduction from Jane Austen’s Most Eligible Bachelor

    By Emily Brand

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    Fitzwilliam Darcy's universally acknowledged primer for single men in possession of a good fortune, should they be in want of a wife. Perfect for fans of Bridgerton and the high society lifestyle of the Regency period.

    Mr Darcy's Guide to Courtship is no ordinary Regency courtship manual, composed as it is by a Fitzwilliam Darcy as yet unmellowed by contact with Elizabeth Bennet. Full of entirely justified pride and meticulously cultivated prejudice, Jane Austen's most famous (and most fancied) hero here reveals the secrets of his success with the opposite sex, offering hints to both ladies and gentlemen on the rules of courtship, including making oneself agreeable, identifying an appropriate partner and how to escape the unwanted attentions of rogues and fortune-hunters.

    *Also includes: beauty tips from Caroline Bingley, thoughts on the improper courtship techniques of Messrs Wickham and Collins, reflections on spinsterhood by Miss Emma Woodhouse, and Darcy's advice to his many illustrious correspondents including Lord Byron, the Duke of Wellington and Mr Willoughby of Combe Magna.*
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherBloomsbury Publishing
    Release dateJul 10, 2013
    ISBN9781908402837
    Mr Darcy’s Guide to Courtship: The Secrets of Seduction from Jane Austen’s Most Eligible Bachelor
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    Emily Brand

    Emily Brand is a writer and historian with a special interest in the long eighteenth century, especially English social history and romantic relationships c.1660–1837. She has lectured on eighteenth-century seduction and women's lives at the V&A, the National Maritime Museum and the BBC History festival among others. Her most recent book The Fall of the House of Byron (John Murray, 2020) was selected as BBC Radio 4's Book of the Week, a Sunday Times, Mail on Sunday and BBC History Magazine Book of the Year and shortlisted for the 2020 Elma Dangerfield Prize. Emily's tongue-in-cheek Mr Darcy's Guide to Courtship was a Publishers Weekly 'Pick of the Week' and featured in Stylist Magazine's '30 Books Every Woman Should Read'

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      Apr 30, 2017

      Obviously written from the perspective of a pre-Elizabeth Bennett Mr. Darcy, this volume instructs gentlemen, and, to a lesser extent, ladies on appropriate courtship behavior. It was absolutely brilliant and hilarious from start to finish! It was completely in keeping with Mr. Darcy's character. I would love to see a sequel written from Mr. Darcy's perspective after having achieved his own matrimony. The sections containing "contributions" from other Austen characters, as well as the "Ask Darcy" section at the end were very clever and amusing. All in all, this was an amusing, short read for any Austen or Regency fan.
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      Apr 30, 2017

      A humorous book for any Jane Austen fan. This work is a quick and easy read. Other Austen characters "contribute" to the book and there's a "Dear Mr. Darcy" section at the end.Net Galley Feedback

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    Mr Darcy’s Guide to Courtship - Emily Brand

    CHAPTER I

    Romance in the Regency Era

    MATRIMONY is a kind of lottery, wherein there are as many blanks as there are prizes. The romancers of this world would have you believe that where the yearnings of the heart are concerned, we all have a better guide in ourselves than any other person can be. I must undeceive you of this preposterous notion. In truth, there is no better guide than this book . I congratulate you for advancing your cause so unreservedly by your purchase of it.

    The lower classes have grown rather fond of bemoaning their wants of freedom, but the ill effects of a bad matrimonial bargain will in fact be felt more keenly by persons of quality. While the unrefined feel at liberty to forget propriety (and the law) so far as to ‘sell’ their spouses for half a crown and a pint of ale if the whim takes them, a gentleman must bury all thought of an unsightly wife with fine feasts, mistresses, the opera and vast quantities of brandy. One wonders, frankly, why the common herd complain so vociferously when they know nothing of the trials their betters endure. But I digress.

    As the early season of courtship is crucial in determining the potential success of a match, time should not be wasted in sighing, fainting away, refusing food or breaking into song. I shall proceed to acquaint the reader with the woeful state of ignorance that currently reigns, the dangers of a hasty alliance, and my own faultless reflections on what is termed ‘love’, the whole offering a complete picture of English amorous affairs in the year 1812.

    NO MISSION BUT MATRIMONY

    THE female inhabitants of this country labour under a general fixation with wedding bells. The mere mention of a wealthy bachelor is quite enough to send half a neighbourhood to distraction, and the prospect of his presence will transform a perfectly rational town into a giddy, giggling mass of new bonnets and ribbons. I can myself take complete credit for the recent revival of the economy of Lincoln, where proprietors of millinery and cosmetic tonics saw their income increase tenfold for the duration of my last visit. Not that the faces of its residents betrayed any benefit from the expense.

    An eligible gentleman not in possession of a wife is assailed from every quarter with a fervour bordering on derangement. Once his fortune is heard of, general prejudice will turn so violently in his favour that it would be the death of the hopeful ladies to regard him as anything less than the handsomest man of their acquaintance. The notion of marriage may not have entered his head, and yet it is fixed in the schemes of every family he meets, and his repose will be disturbed not only by the single females but their mothers, fathers and friends; the very earth he treads wills him to select a wife from local stock. Until, of course, a man of greater standing comes to their notice.

    But while the rational part of the world is uniformly beset by the sighs of ladies with no mission but securing a husband, it is most unfortunate in being simultaneously annoyed by melancholy gentlemen unequal to the task of wooing them. Lovers are, of all people, the most disagreeable. However, with study and proper regulation of sentiment, this ludicrous state of affairs may be easily resolved and courtship rendered a much less vexing exercise for all parties.

    A NOTE TO MY READERS

    Who is permitted to derive benefit from this work?

    LORDS and labourers alike are afflicted by the troubles of the heart. (I mean to make no compliment to the understanding of the latter, of course, but rather to acknowledge Cupid’s regrettable embrace of egalitarianism.) Thus, while much of my advice is directed at the better sort of gentleman, I have no objection to persons of lesser cerebral attainment deriving benefit from it; that is to say, females, persons of trade, and the lower classes. I do, however, expect my readership to command certain levels of intelligence and moral feeling. If you are equivocal on either of these points then I beg you take your leave of this book; in the hands of a foolish or unscrupulous character, I fear that the potency of its wisdom would cause rather more ill than good.

    Most particularly I urge rogues of all persuasions to seek inspiration for their idle gallantries elsewhere. To these incorrigible scoundrels, I say only this: any man who sports with a woman’s feelings, or who pursues her with dishonourable intentions, is the last word in all that is caddish and bounderish. Save your ill-gotten earnings for John Thorpe’s Pleasures of Bath and other lewd scrawls, busy yourself with fallen women and desist from corrupting the nation’s stock of eligible females. Let that be an end to it.

    I address only those who seek to make a successful and respectable courtship their object. Whether you do so for love or pecuniary advancement is no concern of mine (unless your impertinence stretches so far as to inspire designs upon my sister). Having been entirely untroubled by amatory failure, I cannot conceive of any defensible objection to the legitimacy of my counsel. I reflect with great satisfaction that at present, in common with a noted musician and philosopher, while I am beset by nigh on one hundred grievances, a vexatious female need not be counted among them.

    On the Division between the Sexes

    All persons of sound judgment have a duty to marry: men, to propagate their family line, and ladies, to relieve the financial burden from their parents. Couples unable to boast any portion of sense between them are permitted to increase their felicity through marriage, but in the interest of national security they ought to refrain from breeding.

    The natural difference between the sexes – such as compels males to fight duels and females to enjoy embroidery and other trifling amusements – is displayed in the distinct role each assumes in courtship. In a logical division of labour, the gentleman – blessed with the larger share of reason – enjoys the advantage of selection. A woman, physically and mentally equipped for compliance, is generally at liberty only to exercise the power of refusal. As such, the former must master the principles of finding a suitable female, promptly securing her affections, and expressing his intentions. The latter must learn how to heighten her attractions without being taken for a harlot, and how to reject or receive attentions with propriety. Those performing their duties without due diligence exhibit the worst kind of gratuitous folly: such as can prove fatal not only to their own reputation, but to those of all connected with them.

    On the Division between the Classes

    All truly civilised persons must master the principles of proper comportment. Those of the middling ranks, with no small degree of impertinence, aim to emulate their betters. While I condemn such abominable presumption as people stepping out of their rank entirely, this work may be singularly instructive for those with aspirations to court slightly above their station.

    Even those of the most uncouth situations are subject to similar, if less noble, fancies of the heart. While I am not entirely averse to the notion that people of all classes may glean some intelligence from this book, I have no inclination to expend effort on those who have not taken the time to learn to read. Thus, I shall not trouble myself with enquiring deeply into the courtship techniques of the uneducated classes, which seem to be primarily based on the exchange of worthless love tokens and an immoderate consumption of gin.

    A Specimen of Cheapside Romance

    ON WHY ROMANCE MUST BE REGULATED

    WHEN a young person begins to entertain the notion of seeking a partner, his head is often so full of fanciful expectations that he plunges recklessly into the character of a lover before considering how the romance ought to be regulated. Contrary to the common presumption that he is headed for a season of enchantment and emotional discovery, at no other time has a man more need to be strict in his manners, nor a lady to be careful in her conduct.

    Securing an advantageous match is the only way that a daughter may be of real service to her parents, and is a financial imperative for a younger son with no prospect of inheriting the wealth to which he has grown accustomed. Very few can afford to marry without some attention to money, and fewer still possess such wealth as to court exactly where they please.

    Courtship is a singularly complicated business. Each sex nurses its own little deceits, whereby a lady may encourage attentions she fully intends to disappoint, or a gentleman may drop all pretence of attachment once he tires of his scheme. People believing themselves to be ‘in love’ are generally altered into creatures so unhinged that they should not be trusted with making important decisions, particularly those upon which their future felicity depends so fully. Hasty decisions and unchecked passions lay the foundations for an ultimately disappointing – if not utterly miserable – marriage. Even more injurious to a lady’s virtue and a gentleman’s honour, the affair may be abandoned before improper relations can be clothed in the decency of wedlock.

    The proper regulation of romantic matters is essential not only as a matter of preserving

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