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    Common Sense is NOT Common Practice
    Common Sense is NOT Common Practice
    Common Sense is NOT Common Practice
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    Common Sense is NOT Common Practice

    By Rhonda Scharf

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    Have you ever wondered why you were doing something a certain way without any real reason other than "that's the way it has always been done" or "that is what everyone else seems to be doing"?

    It seems that everyone prefers the well worn pat of common practice. Are you guilty?

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherRhonda Scharf
    Release dateApr 3, 2014
    ISBN9781310857263
    Common Sense is NOT Common Practice
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    Rhonda Scharf

    Rhonda Scharf is a Professional Speaker, Trainer, and well respect Author based in Ottawa, ON. She has earned the highest speaking designation in the world, the “Certified Speaking Professional” designation (CSP).Rhonda is more than happy to come to your workplace and offer these real-life skills in person. She makes a potentially threatening topic fun, entertaining and easy to deal with. Interaction in a key component of all of her training programs, webinars and keynotes. When you hire Rhonda, your workplace will be a better place!Since 1993, organizations worldwide have been singing the praises of her programs, such as Dealing with Difficult People, Confrontation Skills, and Beat the Bully!Based in Ottawa, Ontario, and Fort Myers, Florida, Rhonda likes to follow the sun when she time to relax. Regardless of where you are (lf were she is), she will gladly come to you.She is a mom and step-mom to three young adults, still part of a blended family, from a blended family, with a very large extended family. Rhonda’s real-life stories will entertain you while at the same time teaching you lifelong skills. Dysfunction is no stranger to Rhonda, and she shares how to deal with all the challenges that come from those strange and sometimes unhealthy relationship.In her spare time, Rhonda and her husband like to travel, run and watch sunsets.

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      Common Sense is NOT Common Practice - Rhonda Scharf

      Common Sense is NOT Common Practice

      By Rhonda Scharf, CSP

      Copyright 2009 by Rhonda Scharf

      Published by Rhonda Scharf at Smashwords

      This book is available in print.

      All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in or introduced into a retrieval system, or transmitted, in any form, or by any means, including photocopying, recording or other electronic or mechanical methods, without the prior written permission of the above publisher of the book, or the above author of the book, except in the case of brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other non-commercial uses permitted by copyright law.

      Smashwords Edition, License Notes

      This eBook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This eBook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this book with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you're reading this book and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please return to your favorite eBook retailer and purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

      Dedication

      This book is for all my readers.

      I hope you enjoy reading it as much as I enjoyed writing it.

      Acknowledgements

      How can I possibly share my common sense with you and not acknowledge where it came from. To all of those who influenced me as I was a child, and as I continue as an adult, thank you. Thank you to all the teachers who had an impact on me in school—teachers make a difference. Thank you to anyone who was ever in a position to give me advice (even if I didn’t take it). I learned (sometimes the hard way).

      to warren Munn, the man who hears my common sense daily (even when he doesn’t want to), thank you for listening, thank you for agreeing to see my point of view (even when you don’t want to), and thank you for your unconditional support.

      Special thanks go to my mother, Audrey May, and her parents, Stanley and Jessie May, for teaching me to make common sense my practice. To Gordon and Sharon Scharf along with Elisha and hazel Scharf, where would I be without you and the common sense you have instilled? My in-laws, Leland and Iona Munn, have had an impact in my life with their common sense in a very short period of time as well that will travel with me for the rest of my time. Parents and grandparents have always played a major role in my life, and I pray that will continue for a very long time.

      As a parent I hope that I can continue to share my common sense in a helpful way to my children, Christopher and Patrick Finniss along with Victoria and Leland Munn. I hope that I can influence you with the same positive energy that my parents influenced me with.

      For each of you who have taken the time to ask questions during my speeches and training programs, via email or telephone, I thank you as well. The lessons we have all experienced is where the knowledge comes from.

      Thank you one and all for the lessons I have learned.

      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      Part One - Office Etiquette

      Every Day Can be Thanks-Giving Day

      Do You Put in a Full Day at Work?

      The Importance of a Professional Workplace

      What NOT to Wear to Work

      Rules for Working in a Cube Farm

      Don’t Answer That!

      Ever Been Nervous?

      False Sense of Security

      What Are You Attracting?

      Part Two - Communication Basics for Office Harmony

      Good Customer Communication is Good Customer Communication: It All Starts with Service

      Red Light and Green Light Words

      If You Want My Advice - Too Bad!

      Do You Interrupt Others?

      You Can Stop Awfulizing (and prevent others from doing it to you)

      How do You Handle Compliments?

      Do You Sound Credible?

      Voice Mail. Tips to Guarantee a Positive Impression

      Frustrated? Don’t Call Me!

      Are You Listening?

      Part Three - How to Make Nice in the Sandbox: The Importance of Teamwork in the Workplace

      The Sense of a Goose

      The Common Commitment

      Taking Initiative

      Begin with the End in Mind

      We Can Learn a lot from The Apprentice Or, Whom Do You Trust?

      Procrastination…Don’t Create Dis-ease with this Disease!

      Solution or Band-Aid?

      Part Four - Life and Work. A Juggling Act or a Balancing Ballet?

      Do You Bring Your Work Home with You— or Your Family to Work?

      Work Less, Live More

      Are You Prone to STRESS?

      A Facelift for the Mind: Reduce Negative Stress

      Let’s Get Busy Doing Nothing!

      Are You Sleeping Enough?

      Do You Know How to Relax?

      The Benefit to Relaxation: It Recharges Your Batteries

      The Pursuit of Balance

      Part Five - Success is Celebrating You

      How Do You Define Success?

      Are You Good Enough?

      Are You Ignoring Your Own Thirst?

      Stuck in a Rut? Here’s How to Get off the Nail

      Get Your Mojo Back

      You are Either Living or You are Dying. Which are You Doing?

      You’re Never Too Old

      Do You Celebrate You?

      About the Author

      Testimonials

      Introduction

      Why is one person successful and the other is not? What is the difference between a gold medal and a silver medal at the Olympics? Why do some people seem to just enjoy life more than others?

      I get asked those questions all the time and even get paid to share the answers. What I often find is that the answers are simple; you already know them. They aren’t rocket science or take a degree in quantum physics to get them. No, the best answers to these questions come in the form of plain old, every- day common sense. The common sense your grandmother tried to instill in you. The common sense that we see missing every day at work, on the bus, on the television and in the newspaper (and sometimes in the mirror).

      if you want to be successful, if you want to be happy, and you don’t want to go through life settling for anything other than the gold medal—all you need to do is practice what you already know!

      The answer is right in front of you, but first you must get your bad habits out of the way. You are the difference between gold and silver, between happy and trapped, between mediocre and successful. It is you who is sabotaging you. It hurts to admit it, but fortunately it is easy to fix.

      As you share my journey on common sense, be completely honest with yourself and ask do I do that? Be truthful. Learn from the mistake. It is okay to make mistakes in life, just don’t lose the lesson.

      The stories that you’re going to read about in here are taken from my experiences with people who continue to lose the lesson. Unfortunately, because they follow common practice and not common sense, they will never be successful, never be happy, and they are never going to get it! I want you to be one of those in the successful camp. I want you to get it, and you will—if you are honest, if you are willing, and if you practice a little common sense.

      Part One - Office Etiquette

      We go to school to study and learn. We go to college to be- come qualified in what it is we will do with our entire lives. Our identity is in huge part determined by what you do, who you do it with, and how you do it. The truth is, we spend most of our waking lives at work. We also all know that to be true, but why is it that people continue to plod through life not realizing the impact they have on others? They could be so much more successful and happy with a little awareness, a little compassion and understanding, and a whole lot of common sense!

      Unfortunately, we live in a visual, material world, and no matter how smart you sound, if you don’t present yourself in a professional way, you’re not going to be perceived as professional. While we all know that common sense, it seems, gets thrown out the window these days when it comes to how we handle our- selves around our office mates—from the way we dress to the state of our desk. I want you to wake up and look in the mirror— and what follows is just some of my random thoughts along these lines…

      Every Day Can be Thanks-Giving Day

      What has happened to our culture that we don’t say thank- you anymore?

      I was in a drug store recently and made a sizeable purchase. At the end of the purchase, I said, thank-you. I really think that the cashier should have said thank-you, as I’m sure—considering how much I spent—that I contributed to the profitability of the store that week. Instead, I was the one who said thank-you, but instead of the cashier saying you’re welcome, her response was—you guessed it—uh-huh.

      At the bank this morning, I held the door opened for the gentle- man behind me. He didn’t acknowledge my courtesy.

      However, the bank was late in opening this morning, so when I had to get a money order, the bank teller waived the fee because I had to wait for them. She said to me this is a thank-you for your patience this morning. that was nice—customer service as it should be. Sadly, this is the exception not the rule.

      Please and thank-you were the two of most important words I learned to use when I started working as a teenager. it has contributed to my success so far. Thanks, Mom and dad, for teaching me manners.

      Thanking the person who served your coffee is polite, as is thanking the person who made the coffee in your office, even if they made it so they could have a cup. Say thank-you to the person who holds the elevator, delivers your mail, and picks up your garbage. Say thank-you to your spouse for just coming home tonight, and thanks to your kids as they come home safe and sound as well. Say thank-you to the person you look at in the mirror, because some days that’s the only thank-you we get.

      When you are saying thank-you, make sure the words reach your eyes and make eye contact with the person you are thanking. Be sincere because that means as much, or more, than the words you use.

      Say thank-you to your support team at work. They should thank you as well, as hopefully you are a joy to work with. In fact, what the heck. Go crazy and say thank-you to everyone at work whether they support you or not and truly mean the words you are sharing. And on Mother’s day, we know we need to thank Mom for everything she has done for us over the years. Same is true for Father’s day.

      Why do we need to be reminded to say thank-you one day each year? Shouldn’t we go through life with a thankful mentality? Let’s start right now and put ourselves on-the-right-track by saying thank-you several times each day. Say thank-you to co- workers, family members and complete strangers.

      Try it and you’ll be amazed at how much better you feel, how much more positive life is, and how your smile stays on your face. Don’t focus on those who say uh-huh or don’t acknowledge your thank-you, and return the thanks to yourself by saying thank- you, (insert your name) for being the more polite and respectful person today.

      Count how many times you say thank-you today, and of course, be sure to add the equally correct you’re welcome when some- one says thank-you to you.

      Most of all, I thank you for taking the time to read this book. Thank you if you pass it on to someone who normally wouldn’t purchase a book like this, and thank you for allowing me the privilege of writing, speaking, and sharing my life with you.

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      Do You Put in a Full Day at Work?

      My teenaged son, Christopher, works at a golf course. His shift starts at 4:00 p.m. if I am driving him to work, he is in a complete state of

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