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    Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3: 51 Advanced Submissive Training & Total Dominance Techniques Any Dom/Master Must Know
    Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3: 51 Advanced Submissive Training & Total Dominance Techniques Any Dom/Master Must Know
    Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3: 51 Advanced Submissive Training & Total Dominance Techniques Any Dom/Master Must Know
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    Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3: 51 Advanced Submissive Training & Total Dominance Techniques Any Dom/Master Must Know

    By Matthew Larocco

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    "Dom's Guide to BDSM" was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 3 of this series, we’re going to focus on advanced techniques that will set you apart from the fake/novice doms/masters who are just looking for someone to abuse.

    After finishing reading this book, you will be fully equipped to be the best Dom you can be. You will have complete dominance over your sub, and also have the option of helping to transform the sub into becoming the better version of herself that she really wants to be.

    Your knowledge as a disciplinarian, a Master, a dominant, an Alpha and a teacher, will always be a commodity and a great value that subs will find very attractive. You will a true Master that any sub will respect & admire.

    Here are just some of the things you will discover:

    - Common “Vanilla” BDSM Activities (And How To Do Them Right!)
    - Extreme Bondage Play
    - Roleplaying and Questionable Consent
    - How to Genital-Torture Him/Her Without Pushing Too Far
    - Suspension and Other Forms of Bondage
    - Humiliation That Turns On, Not Off
    - Edging and Edge Play
    - How to Put Your Partner in Trance
    - Anonymous Fun with New People
    - Where to Find a Quality Sub or Dom
    - Introducing a BDSM Element into a Vanilla Relationship
    - Threesomes, Orgies and Gender Neutral Sessions
    - And much more...
    Note: If you have not read Volume 1 & 2 in this series, it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherLiving Plus Healthy Publishing
    Release dateSep 14, 2015
    ISBN9781310327162
    Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3: 51 Advanced Submissive Training & Total Dominance Techniques Any Dom/Master Must Know

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      Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3 - Matthew Larocco

      Introduction

      If you’ve been enjoying our series thus far, you’ve already learned a lot about how to put on the DOMINANT frame of mind, how a BDSM session is conducted, and how the psychology behind Bondage / Dominance / Submission and Masochism works.

      You might be ready to invade the dungeon even now as we speak! But hold on…you’re not quite done with your crash course in Mastery and Becoming a Dom. There are still a few things you need to learn about becoming a MASTER and being able to treat a sub just the way she expected to be treated. (Yes, subs are demanding and there’s no excuse for failure!)

      In this book we are going to discuss all remaining aspects of the BDSM lifestyle, including:

      How to put a sub in a trance state

      Various BDSM activities that you are expected to know

      How to go about punishing your sub physically and emotionally

      And where to meet your ideal sub(s)

      For starters, we’re going to take it slow, just as any wise Master/Dom does…at least at first. The theme of the first chapter is how to start with vanilla and to progress slowly into more fruitful and intense colors of lust and love.

      So let’s get started on your final lesson—one that culminates with you, the Apprentice Dom become a true Master!

      Note: Throughout the book we may use he for Dom/Master and she for sub/slave. Nevertheless, understand that a Dom/Master can be either male or female, and so can a sub/slave. Also, for convenience most parts of the book use Dom and Master interchangeably, as well as sub and slave.

      Chapter 1: Common Vanilla BDSM Activities (And How To Do Them Right!)

      Vanilla sex! What is that and why is it such a popular term in the BDSM community? Simply put, vanilla means the opposite of kinky or freaky. If someone prefers vanilla to rocky road or cherry caramel jalapeno flavor (or whatever they come up with) that means that they tend to be conservative and not completely into the untamed world of BDSM. The opposite of vanilla is someone who pushes the envelope and knows exactly what taboos they want to play with and enjoy.

      In previous books, we discussed a lot about the theory and the discipline involved in the lifestyle. However, in this book we’re going to actually focus on some of the activities involved in creating a BDSM relationship.

      And yes, if you’re new to BDSM then just accept that you’re going to be vanilla for a while. It’s not recommended that you jump 0 to 100 MPH when you just start driving for the first time, right? And if you’re never tried a particular flavor of ice cream (so to speak) then you are probably more inclined to try the regular or common flavors first before you gradually work your way to the weird and wild.

      This is particularly true in sex or non-sex BDSM activity, because of the intense psychological nature of this lifestyle. You simply can’t jump into an extreme relationship with someone because that will very likely cause trust issues. Fear is such a de-motivator in the lifestyle; no one wants to lose trust in their partner or feel unsafe when they are approaching a new taboo. It’s the opposite of sexy and motivating and passionate.

      Instead, the focus should be on gaining trust and learning HOW TO DO THE BASICS. Because you have to gain both knowledge and experience before claiming to be the master that you desire to be.

      Tip #1: Start slow and learn the basics of vanilla BDSM before you start pushing boundaries.

      Therefore, we’ve listed some of the most common BDSM activities that everyone tries when getting into the lifestyle. They are somewhat vanilla in comparison to the more extreme toys and situations—some of which we will discuss later on. For now, add these to your list of Can Dos and take our advice on starting out.

      Pinching, Scratching and Biting

      This is perhaps BDSM Level 1, and frankly, a lot of people might enjoy this base level of rough sex without even knowing they’re dabbling into it. We don’t really think of pain and pleasure when we’re consumed with lust for a person—we just go at it naturally and the roughness involved is part of the thrill. Scratching and hair pulling is fairly common and the sort of thing you automatically do when you’re intensely aroused and need something to grab hold on, in order to transfer that energy to someone else.

      Even biting or nibbling is somewhat common in the case of the hickey, which a lot of youngsters do in the backseats of cars for their first few sessions. Pinching is typically reserved for genitals and breasts, and a little bit goes a long way.

      The idea is not necessarily pain but the loss of control. For example, pinching and light

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