No Excuses: Time To Man Up
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The absentee father is a crisis which crosses all ethnic boundaries. For too long many of us have neglected our obligations to our children. One of the causes is poor decision making resulting in everything from addiction, incarceration, to failure to stepping up to the plate. No reason is forgivable as the ultimate victim is the child. It’s time to make an attempt to rectify this behavior by establishing or reestablishing relationships with our children.
The “Let’s Talk About Me” and “The Real Victim” sections specifically look at my complete failure as a father. The most important part of the document to me is called “Letters from My Children” which was suggested by Aleshia Anderson. I reached out to each child and asked them to discuss our lives before I became actively involved and afterwards. They all responded and I left it unedited. If one father can gather from this document it’s time to make an attempt to reconnect with their child it will be well worth putting it together.
Leonard Anderson Jr
Leonard Anderson Jr is a native Philadelphian who currently resides in Plymouth Meeting Pa. Leonard recently obtained his Master’s Degree in Health Administration from St. Joseph’s University May 2012. He is employed as a Billing Manager at the University of Pennsylvania Hospital. Leonard’s love for writing begin when he penned his first song as a member of the Acapella group The Thorough Tones entitled ‘We’re Making Love. His compassionate side led him to write two poetry books entitled “Damn Right I’ve Got Attitude” and “Two Began the Loving.” Since then he has written 5 novels, 2 plays and is currently working on a movie script for his novel "The Blackavellian Knights". Leonard’s website is www.leonardandersonjr.com
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No Excuses - Leonard Anderson Jr
No Excuses: Time To Man Up
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Leonard Anderson Jr.
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Dedication
This book is dedicated to my children. I love you all with my heart and soul. I thank God for each of you and wish you nothing but happiness. I would also like to thank the many family members who supported, nurtured, guided and even raised the kids during my struggles in the past.
Table of Contents
Preface
Look Out Your Window
Level the Playing Field
Let's Talk About Me
The Real Victim?
Fatherhood for Sex
Fatherhood for Support
Road to Redemption
Let's Talk About You
Letters From My Children
Preface
This document was written with the intent to encourage fathers to reunite with their children. Fathers must play an active role in their sons and daughters lives. Many of us have been on the sidelines for much too long for various excuses and reasons. Please note that none of them are legitimate.
It's time to take a stand and save our youth. This doesn't apply to just our flesh and blood, but to all children in need of help and guidance. Failure to help equates to participating in their failure.
With prayer and a family who refused to let go of the lifeline, I made it back to the light. Hopefully, you'll see a correlation or pattern similar to your situation and will