Rehnquist: A Personal Portrait of the Distinguished Chief Justice of the United States
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The impact of Chief Justice William Rehnquist—who served as a Supreme Court justice for a third of a century and headed the federal judiciary under four presidents—cannot be overstated. His dissenting opinion in Roe v. Wade, and his strongly stated positions on issues as various as freedom of the press, school prayer, and civil rights, would guarantee his memory on their own. Chiefly, though, William Rehnquist will always be remembered for his highly visible role in two of the most important and contentious political events of recent American history: the impeachment trial of President Bill Clinton in 1999 and the Supreme Court's decision that made George W. Bush the victor in the presidential election of 2000.
Despite his importance as a public figure, however, William Rehnquist scrupulously preserved his private life. And while his judicial opinions often inflamed passions and aroused both ire and praise, they were rarely personal. The underlying quirks, foibles, and eccentricities of the man were always under wraps.
Now, however, journalist Herman J. Obermayer has broken that silence in a memoir of their nineteen-year friendship that is both factually detailed and intensely moving, his own personal tribute to his dearest friend. In these pages, we meet for the first time William Rehnquist the man, in a portrait that can only serve to enhance the legacy of a Chief Justice who will be remembered in history as being among America's most influential.
Herman Obermayer
Herman Obermayer (1924–2016) was a journalist, politician, author, and publisher. He began as a reporter at the Long Island Daily Press in New York before eventually buying the Long Branch Daily Record in 1957. He was also owner and publisher of the Northern Virginia Sun from 1963 to 1989. He wrote several books, including Soldiering for Freedom and Rehnquist.
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Rehnquist - Herman Obermayer
ALSO BY HERMAN J. OBERMAYER
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Soldiering for Freedom: A GI’s Account of World War II
REHNQUIST
A Personal Portrait of the Distinguished Chief Justice of the U.S.
HERMAN J. OBERMAYER
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In Memory of
LEON J. OBERMAYER
1886–1984
and
JULIA SINSHEIMER OBERMAYER
1900–1996
Parenting exemplars
TABLE OF CONTENTS
PREFACE
PART ONE
1. TENNIS AND LITERATURE
2. SHOREWOOD
3. GOLDWATER AND KITCHEL
4. HOME
PART TWO
5. IMPEACHMENT
6. DISPUTED ELECTION
7. RELIGION
8. MEDIA
PART THREE
9. PERSONALITY QUIRKS
10. BETTING
11. MOVIES
12. HISTORIAN
13. COMINGS AND GOINGS
PART FOUR
14. DECLINE
15. REQUIEM
AFTERWORD
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
NOTES AND SOURCES
PERMISSIONS
INDEX
PREFACE
I.
THE DEATH OF William H. Rehnquist, the sixteenth chief justice of the United States, on September 3, 2005, was a news event of worldwide importance. Around the globe it received front-page coverage. The president ordered that flags on all public buildings be flown at half-staff. For me, it was also an event of great importance. It meant the end of a profound friendship.
Editorial writers and commentators speculated on how the passing of Chief Justice Rehnquist, the Supreme Court’s undisputed leader for almost two decades, would affect American life in the future, both near and distant. All agreed that history would remember him. He had made a difference. But there was wide disagreement as to whether he would be remembered favorably. While his judicial opinions were almost always scholarly and forceful, many also were controversial and provocative.
Still, virtually nothing was published about Bill Rehnquist the man. Obituary articles ranged from stereotyped and journalistic to scholarly and analytic. Many were generous and laudatory. They used superlatives to describe his intellect, his leadership skills, his memory and his legal reasoning. Yet, except for brief mentions of life-cycle-type events—births, marriages, graduations, public honors and promotions—virtually nothing was written about his personality or personal life. This was not attributable to sloppy reportage or poorly maintained archives. He had worked hard to keep his private life—including his friendship with me—out of the limelight. And media coverage following his death confirmed that he had succeeded.
The man who headed the federal judiciary under four presidents, and who served as a Supreme Court justice for a third of a century, was almost a nonperson, a historic figure about whom the general public knew little or nothing. This in itself is most unusual. It is truly remarkable in light of the highly visible role he played in two of the most important and contentious events in recent American history: the Supreme Court’s decision that made George W. Bush the winner of the presidential election in 2000 and the impeachment trial of President Bill Clinton in 1999, when, for the second time in American history, a chief justice presided over the United States Senate. No other American played even a minor role in both of these historic occurrences.
Rehnquist’s judicial opinions often inflamed passions. They aroused both ire and praise. But those feelings were rarely personalized. The underlying quirks and eccentricities were too well hidden. That is history’s loss. In a small way, I will try to remedy that loss. Knowledge about the enthusiasms, biases, foibles and personal habits of the individuals who affect great events—including judicial events—contributes, often significantly, to understanding and evaluating them.
Among his contemporaries, curiosity about the late chief justice is not limited to the Clinton impeachment and the 2000 election. A broad swath of the public would like to know more about the man whose elegant and tightly reasoned dissent in Roe v. Wade has for almost thirty-five years provided the intellectual undergirding for right-to-life court briefs, and whose Hustler magazine opinion made it legal to tell small lies, as long as they were part of a satirical work in which the author was using them to make a larger point.
II.
FROM THE LATE 1980s until his death, Bill and I enjoyed a warm, close, abiding friendship. When we were both at home, we were in touch by phone or in person nearly every week. Our friendship enhanced both our lives. We treasured it. Until his thyroid cancer operation in October 2004, both of us thought we were in excellent health and that we would continue to enjoy our friendship for many years. His death was a profound experience for me. An important chapter in my life had ended; a void was opened that will never be filled.
Today I am the survivor. Until now, I have kept the details of our relationship private—as we both preferred. But I believe I have been bequeathed a responsibility to write a factual and honest, yet personal and candid, book about my friend. Since one of us is now dead, exposing our relationship to public view cannot harm or compromise it. It can, however, enhance and facilitate the work of future historians and scholars who will study his opinions and the decisions of the court that he led.
Bill’s judicial opinions should be appraised on their merits—legal, social, and ethical. That is someone else’s job, an ongoing, evolving job. Yet, no product of the human brain was created in total isolation. Often those products can best be understood in the larger context of the life that created them.
III.
IT IS IMPORTANT that someone write a truly personal book about Bill because character matters—and I had a uniquely personal understanding of his character. While the roots of character are usually traced to family background and early childhood, a window into Bill’s late-in-life tastes, habits, eccentricities and values can also cast light on its origins. I will unmask some of the traits that formed his character. He lived by a moral compass. In the course of a long life, he made many decisions, private as well as public. Many were foolish or wrong-headed. But his bad decisions cannot be traced back to venality or pettiness. I believe his chief ambition was to bequeath a judicial record that was the work product of a man who stood firm for what he perceived as right, a man who played the game straight with toughness and finesse. He stood at the apex of his profession. Within the federal judiciary he was the nominal CEO. His directions and instructions were not—and in real-world terms could not—be challenged. The restraint and discipline he showed during his workday, when he could have been an autocrat, carried over to his private life.
Bill had personal friends who knew him longer and differently, but none in the same way that I did. Court colleagues, former clerks, social friends, school chums and family all had meaningful special relationships. But each viewed him from a different perspective: their own. Hopefully, in the fullness of time, some of them will also write Rehnquist memoirs. Their writings will add texture and nuance to mine. Ours was a special relationship without encumbrances. We were close and devoted friends. Nothing more. But that is a great deal.
We met in the seventh decade of our lives. Our notions of right and wrong and good and bad were firmly in place. We knew who and what we liked and disliked—and we usually knew why. Almost by accident, we discovered that we had similar tastes and beliefs in matters as diverse as poetry and politics, movies and economics, TV sports and literary criticism.
IV.
FOR TWO HAPPILY married, well-established men to form an abiding friendship late in life is most unusual. It is different from the all-encompassing, uncomplicated bonding of adolescents. It is also substantially different from the kind of friendship that occasionally develops out of business, sports, neighborhoods, clubs and church relationships. To a large extent, ours grew out of shared interests in some of the obscure byways of intellectual inquiry.
Our bond grew stronger after Bill became a widower in 1991. His wife Nan’s passing left a great void in his life, and he mourned her passing until his own death fourteen years later.
His loneliness was mitigated by the fact that he worked in a collegial environment. Part of his job was disputing ideas and concepts with colleagues whose intelligence and intellectual acumen he respected and whom he personally liked.
But away from work there was emptiness. His daughter Jan and his granddaughters, Natalie and Claire Lynch, lived nearby. They provided him with some warmth and family life. While he spent at least one evening a week with Jan and her daughters, and he attended Lutheran church services and Bible class with them on Sundays, they had their own lives to live, and he respected that. He was an avid card player, and he looked forward to his regular poker and bridge games. But their frequency did not fill the gap.
We played tennis on Sundays, as we had for several years, and we met periodically for lunch, but he let me know that he was particularly lonely on Saturday nights. Weekday evenings he busied himself with court work or the American history book he was writing. But Saturday nights were different. He felt awkward going to a restaurant or the movies alone, and he was not ready for dating.
Our bond grew stronger with the passage of time. Certain aspects of friendship, like marriage, are cumulative. With each passing year we learned more about each other. From that knowledge grew understanding, empathy and respect. This became particularly apparent during the last months of Bill’s life, when he was an invalid who could no longer eat food normally and constantly wiped spittle from his tracheotomy tube during a conversation. Male friends in their eighties candidly share their perplexity at the way human decay manifests itself in the same way that teenagers casually share their confusion about human reproduction’s mysteries.
When we first met in the autumn of 1986, Bill had just been confirmed as chief justice, and I was editor-publisher of the Northern Virginia Sun, a small, politically independent daily newspaper. From the beginning it was clear that neither of us could do anything to advance the other’s career. I was not a lawyer, a judge, a politician or a lobbyist. Since Bill ignored what was said about him in nationally circulated periodicals and prestigious law reviews, it was unlikely he would be concerned about commentary in a community newspaper that chiefly covered high school football, traffic congestion, police blotters, zoning decisions and teachers’ salaries.
We were almost exactly the same age. I was born on September 19, 1924. He was born twelve days later on October 1, 1924. At sixty-two we had both crossed the senior citizen threshold as defined by the Social Security Administration. Our upbringings had been similar. Both sets of parents had been happily married. We were raised in affluent suburbs of big cities: he in Shorewood outside Milwaukee, I in Germantown outside Philadelphia. We attended academically competitive public high schools and elite colleges: Stanford and Dartmouth. He was Lutheran. I was Jewish. Although the rites and observances of our religions were very different, our approaches to organized religion were similar. We found succor and solace in ritual observance, and acknowledged its importance in our lives. We both considered ourselves devout but not pious.
We had broad and varied reading tastes. We read poetry and fiction as well as history and commentary. During the last years of Bill’s life when we shared movie dates several times each month, shortly after greeting each other, one of us would inquire, What are you reading this week?
The response was the opening gambit for an often lengthy discussion of literature, authors, history, whatever. We also enjoyed reciting poetry, and did so regularly at dinners and lunches together. We understood that in most social gatherings, quoting Alexander Pope or Vachel Lindsay (two of Bill’s favorites) as a comment on the quality of a dessert or the waitress’s coiffure or teeth would be considered pompous, inappropriate or just plain showing off.
We both entered the Army in 1943 as privates and, after serving overseas, we were discharged in 1946 as sergeants. Six of our seven children graduated from the same public high school in McLean, Virginia. Two were classmates. We even had a mutual teenage friend and classmate: Jim Heller graduated with Bill from Shorewood High School in June 1942 and three months later moved into Dartmouth’s Streeter Hall with me.
When we met, we had both been married for more than thirty years to women with similar backgrounds. Both of our wives had given up careers to raise children, become involved in the community and in backing up the budding careers of their ambitious husbands. Nan Cornell and Bill were married in 1953 in a formal church wedding with a full retinue of bridesmaids and ushers in San Diego. Betty Nan Levy and I were married two years later in a large, formal synagogue ceremony in New Orleans.
While none of our offspring attended our alma maters and none became judges or daily newspaper publishers, most of the apples did not fall far from the tree. Bill’s two oldest children, Jim and Jan, are practicing attorneys, and his youngest, Nancy, retired to raise children after a career as an editor. My middle two daughters, Roni and Adele, were TV journalists until they retired to raise families. My oldest, Helen, sells print advertising and my youngest, Elizabeth, is a social worker.
V.
SINCE 1971, WHEN President Richard Nixon surprised the nation by appointing an obscure forty-seven-year-old bureaucrat from Arizona to the Supreme Court, historians and political reporters have speculated about how Bill Rehnquist secured what is arguably the American republic’s most coveted political appointment.
Extensive research then, as well as after his death, failed to disclose anything substantive beyond good luck, a first-rate intellect and a behind-the-scenes role in Barry Goldwater’s unsuccessful run for the presidency. He was not a scion of great wealth. Nobody in the political firmament was indebted to him. He had no chits to cash. Bill’s success has always been difficult to explain. Hopefully this book, by disclosing new details about a simple, nothing-to-hide life, will offer fresh insights into the real man behind the enigmatic persona.
In Arizona, where Bill lived for fifteen years, he was neither a joiner nor a recluse. He established several lifelong friendships there, but he failed to create a public record that could be praised or attacked. When he moved to the Washington area in 1969 to accept a post in the Nixon administration’s Justice Department, his client list included some of Phoenix’s more important businesses, but he never became active in bar association affairs beyond Maricopa County, where Phoenix is located.
Although an early member of the Arizona Mafia
that managed Barry Goldwater’s 1964 presidential campaign, Bill is only mentioned fleetingly in most political histories of the period. As the house intellectual,
he authored sophisticated position papers and wrote speeches for the candidate. He was a member of the first team.
But to the general public he was invisible.
Journalists have even searched the background of his wife, Nan, hoping to discover that she was an heiress, a political activist or the close relative of a prominent Republican. But this line of inquiry also turned out to be futile. Before her marriage, Nan was an analyst on the CIA’s Austria desk with a secret
clearance. Her father was a successful San Diego physician who had seven children and little interest in politics.
Bill’s public demeanor and appearance are best described as unexceptional. Good-looking but not movie star handsome, he stood out in a crowd chiefly because of his height: six foot two. The wisps of hair surrounding his baldness never turned gray or white, and until the end they had a brownish-rusty hue. Always careful about his diet, he never became paunchy. He wore large-lens fashionable glasses, and his easy laugh showed a mouth full of old-fashioned gold crowns. He dressed appropriately but uninterestingly: button-down shirts, unobtrusive ties, Hush Puppy–type shoes, work pants (but never jeans) on weekends and off-the-rack suits that he usually bought from lower-end mall haberdashers.
A hearty greeting accompanied a weak handshake. At belly-laugh movies, he had no reticence about audibly guffawing. While his lifelong back problems did not seriously compromise his posture, he was slightly pigeon-toed and walked with a discernible lope.
Bill welcomed gossip about mutual friends and colleagues. The social isolation forced on him by his exalted position meant that only rarely was he able to enjoy exchanging juicy tidbits about members of the judicial and social communities of which he was a part. While he was bored by trivia about athletes, entertainers and most players on the political stage, his awareness of social trivia’s significance was confirmed in the history books he wrote. They were full of genealogical references and explanations of blood ties.
He lived modestly, far below his means. He had no interest in building an estate. Stock and bond investing bored him. His town-house neighbors were law firm associates and middle-level civil servants. Ostentation offended him.
Those who were able to pierce the hard outside shell that hid Bill Rehnquist’s character and personality discovered a quick-witted man who cherished abiding friendships, admired personal loyalty and empathized with other people’s travails. He was obsessively frugal, annoyingly punctual, endlessly curious and addicted to cigarettes.
Conservatism was a core value. It was an essential part of the prism through which Bill viewed life. Its application to politics and government was only a small portion of a larger value system. He respected tradition and order, intellectual and social, as well as political and economic. He believed that the proven and established should not be rejected until there are substantial reasons to believe that the new is superior. While this is not a book about public policy, it is necessary to explain the role conservatism played in his thinking. Our friendship would never have developed as it did if we had not shared similar conservative approaches to politics, family life, economics and ethics.
Bill and I understood that candor and honesty are quite different from the granting of mutual access to all of a life’s secrets. A respect for boundaries and limits is fundamental for most lasting human relationships. It is an essential component of successful marriages and parenting—as well as friendships. Early on we both acknowledged that our relationship had to be circumscribed by some ground rules. We never talked about his colleagues or cases before his court, unless, in an unusual circumstance, Bill initiated the discussion.
VI.
IN 1841, RALPH Waldo Emerson (1803–82), one of America’s best-known poets and intellectuals, published an essay entitled Friendship.
Its enduring relevance is attested to by the fact that it has never been out of print since.
I am amazed at how accurately Emerson described the essence of Bill’s and my relationship. He explained that true friendship could flourish only when certain preconditions were met. Bill and I met all of them.
They were:
• Friends must never be in a position to give each other anything beyond trust, warmth, candid conversation and comradeship. There must never be the potential for career or monetary benefit for either party.
• Friends must have symmetry. In the twenty-first century, as in the nineteenth century, symmetry
describes a relationship that is proportional and balanced. In current usage the word is usually associated with art, decorating, landscaping and architecture. In Emerson’s day it was usually applied to human interactions. It referred to individuals who shared philosophies, proximate birth dates and similar tastes in art, literature, friends and recreational activities. People with symmetry supported the same political candidates, belonged to the same organizations and had read many of the same classical texts.
• Friends must always be free to walk away from their association without notice, apology or penalty. To explain this, he contrasted a friendship with a marriage. Spouses often meet the first preconditions, but marriage is a contractual relationship. Neither partner can casually walk away.
It was only after several years of exploring each other’s intellectual interests, lifestyle preferences and midlife reading habits that we realized how much we shared; how well we met Emerson’s preconditions for true friendship.
VII.
I AM BOTH a saver and an inveterate note taker. Neatly filed at my home are college letters to and from my parents, correspondence about newspaper columns I wrote forty and fifty years ago, plus book reviews, annotated theater programs and unique Christmas cards going back to high school days.
My 2005 book about World War II, Soldiering for Freedom, puts on display my penchant for saving the trivia that cumulatively tends to document a life. That book is based on letters, photographs and certain artifacts of war that I had saved for more than sixty years. I fastidiously kept photographs as well as maps, labels, books, souvenirs, postcards and Nazi propaganda at a time when all of my earthly possessions had to fit into a barracks bag that was most often transported from place to place on my shoulder. Until after censorship was lifted in the European Theater of Operations, shortly after V-E Day (May 8, 1945), I had no idea how long I would have to keep my undeveloped rolls of film and war trivia in my barracks bag, where they occupied space that otherwise would have been used for an extra sweater or a pair of dry shoes.
It was inevitable—almost reflexive—that I would save small remembrances of my friendship with Bill. Through the years I regularly dropped Rehnquist Items
into a red wallet folder. These included postcards, election bet picks, invitations and book reviews, plus occasional scribbled notes on the backs of envelopes, restaurant checks and theater programs.
A psychiatrist might search for the origins of my compulsive saving habit. It has been an important personality trait since early childhood. In varying circumstances my wife of fifty-three years still inquires about my fascination with the acquisition of memorabilia. I did not accumulate either World War II or Rehnquist mementos with the intent to write books.
Both Bill and I thought we were in robust health at the time of his eightieth birthday party two weeks before his surgery. We expected to share good times together for many more years. The day after the party, we discussed my dinner partners (two attractive women I had not previously known) like young men chatting about girls they had danced with at a ball. Writing a