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    The Secret Things of God: Unlocking the Treasures Reserved for You
    The Secret Things of God: Unlocking the Treasures Reserved for You
    The Secret Things of God: Unlocking the Treasures Reserved for You
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    The Secret Things of God: Unlocking the Treasures Reserved for You

    By Henry Cloud

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    In this Christian alternative to the phenomenal bestseller The Secret, acclaimed author Dr. Henry Cloud helps readers discover truths that make life work and show how faith can guide them in achieving their goals!

    The Bible claims that God has provided special truths that can change lives and uplift the spirit, but often those truths lie dormant and untapped within the soul. Offering a positive alternative to The Secret based on biblical scripture, Dr. Henry Cloud reveals that there is indeed a power of attraction ruling the universe—the attraction between God and his creation—and demonstrates how that power can shape our lives. With step-by-step practical instructions, this book teaches readers from all walks of life how to apply spiritual truths to real life. Even Christians who think they understand biblical truths often don’t know how to use them. Chapters on happiness, relationships, purpose, and God, share secrets like, “you attract to yourself relationships that fit you,” “whatever you put to use will grow,” and “there is no such thing as disconnected and happy.” The Secret Things of God reveals profoundly simple secrets and gently guides readers toward unlocking the power of these truths in everyday life.
    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherHoward Books
    Release dateJul 23, 2013
    ISBN9781476759067
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    Henry Cloud

    Dr. Henry Cloud is a clinical psychologist, pastor to pastors, and New York Times bestselling author. His 45 books, including the iconic Boundaries, have sold over 20 million copies worldwide. Throughout his storied career as a clinician, he started treatment centers, created breakthrough new models rooted in research, and has been a leading voice on issues of mental health and leadership on a global scale. Dr. Cloud lives in Los Angeles with his wife, Tori, and their two daughters, Olivia and Lucy.  

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    The Secret Things of God - Henry Cloud

    WELCOME

    You may have picked up this book because you’ve read or heard of The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. In that book, Byrne explores our relationship to the universe and how understanding what lies beyond the veil drastically affects our lives, relationships, and goals. The fact that millions have responded to The Secret shows the deep hunger we all have for two things: one, we all want to understand the nature of the universe and those things beyond what we can see; and, two, we all have a hunger for principles and practices that make life work.

    While so many have found The Secret’s message to be intriguing and inspiring, it has raised several questions from those of the Judeo-Christian faith: (1) Are the forces that control the universe and our lives impersonal and detached, as The Secret explains; or is the force behind it all of a more personal nature? (2) Is there just one secret; i.e., your thoughts create your life, good or bad? Or, just like in the physical universe, does the spiritual universe have a set of laws that make life work? (3) Is making your life work all up to you; or is it a collaborative effort between you and a force greater than you, who cares about you and has a plan for you? It is these questions and more that The Secret Things of God will address.

    This book is not a Christian argument for or against The Secret. In fact, it sometimes agrees with and sometimes differs with it. Over and above being a discussion on the principles of The Secret, this book affirms the deep spiritual hunger that the success of Byrne’s book has shown all of us to have. And it offers tested spiritual truths based on the Bible that help make life work. For all of us long to know what more is out there, who this force is, how it works, how we can get on the right side of it, and if it has a name.

    Today’s spiritual environment reminds me of that of ancient Greece, where all kinds of spiritual discussions and ideas floated around. When the apostle Paul entered the scene, rather than bash those with different perspectives, he affirmed the quest itself. He basically said to them, I see that you are a spiritual people, building an altar to an Unknown God. This Unknown God is who I’ve come to tell you about. He told them one of the things I want to share with you: God wants a relationship with you; he wants you to seek after him and to find him. Even further, he said our very existence and purpose is wrapped up in him.¹

    This book’s title comes from a letter the apostle Paul wrote. In it he said, Regard us . . . as those entrusted with the secret things of God.² These secrets are, indeed, a great trust—a treasure that can literally change your life. The spiritual truths shared in these pages will connect you with the God who created the universe and will unlock the secrets to making life work.

    THE SEARCH

    THE BEGINNINGS OF MY OWN SEARCH . . .

    It was the spring semester of my sophomore year in college. I was at the end of my efforts to figure it all out. I had a failed dating relationship, a failed dream, and I was failing at getting out from under the depression that haunted me every day. I was at the end of my rope.

    On this particular Sunday afternoon, I was sitting in my dorm room, just thinking. I was thinking about how I had come to college with high hopes in all three of those areas of life. Just a year and a half before, I was full of dreams and optimism. As I headed off to college, I was looking forward to a satisfying relational life, after going through the usual hit-and-miss of adolescent dating. I had hoped to accomplish my dream of a successful college golf career, and I had certainly hoped that all of that would bring me happiness. But after the breakup, a hand injury affected my golf game to the extent that I was not playing well enough to continue. The loss of both made it a struggle to even get up and going each day, and I was painfully aware of the gap between where I had thought I would be and where I was. And that gap was huge.

    So there I was, pondering it all. I was wondering, How do you make it all work? How did people find the right person to fall in love with? How did they find that special path for their real talents and gifts that would become a meaningful and successful career? Forget meaningful . . . how did they even make a living? And how did they achieve happiness? What was the trick? What was the secret to making it all go well?

    Now at this point, I was not what you would call religious, by any stretch. I would not even call myself spiritual, which at the very least means someone who puts time, thought, and effort into developing a spiritual self in some significant way. I was just a guy trying to find my way and make it all work. So understand, I was not approaching my situation that day with any sort of spiritual hopes, plans, or thoughts that God was going to reach out of the sky and make it all better. That was not a part of my experience base, so what happened next was a total shock to me. I had no idea that everything was about to change—forever.

    As I sat there on my bed, pondering all these things of life, I looked around the room, and up on my bookshelf was my Bible. I felt some sort of pull, or intrigue, or a wondering if it might have something to say to me in my dilemma. However you would describe that impulse, I had not felt it before; for I had not taken that Bible off the shelf since I had come to college. But there it was, so I walked over and picked it up.

    Then it happened. I opened it up, randomly, and my eyes fell immediately to a verse that seemed to jump off the page. Here is what it said:

    But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.¹

    All these things? What things? What was it talking about? I looked at the verses before that one, and it was talking about all the things of life, all the stuff we worry about, like the things that I was concerned with that day . . . like my entire future. Then it said this:

    Therefore, do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.²

    Wait, I thought. Let me read that again. What it was saying was that if I would seek God and his kingdom and his righteousness, then all of this stuff would somehow work out? Is that what I was reading? Could that be true? At that point, I had no clue what his kingdom or righteousness even were, but I got the gist. It was telling me that I should not worry about all the stuff I was worrying about; but instead, I should seek God and he would make it all work.

    For a nonreligious fraternity type, this was beyond anything I could actually believe would work. But I was not beyond having a wish for it to work. I mean, who wouldn’t want that? A life that actually worked because God was working things out? It felt a little like wishful thinking to me, but my way certainly was not working. So I was confronted with a choice. Should I try the God thing?

    I have to admit, my first thought about seeking God was that there was no way I was going to turn into one of those religious types. I thought they were weird and definitely not the kind of people I could ever see myself hanging out with. Weren’t they the ones who didn’t even party? I knew that would never work. But I decided that I had to put all that aside and take one step: I had to find out if God was there. Then if it turned out that he was, the next step would be to see if he would help me without making me weird. That sounded like a plan. So I decided to go for it. I would seek God, to see if this could work.

    Figuring I could not do this in a dorm room, I wandered across the SMU campus and found an empty chapel. It was cold and dark, and I went down to the altar and said a simple prayer. It was something like this: God . . . I don’t even know if you are there. But if you are, I need your help. If you help me, I will do anything you tell me to do. Just help me. Find me. At that point, I knew something had changed.

    No—nothing happened. No lights, no burning bush, no feelings of peace. Just empty silence. Nothing on the outside was different, but I knew that inside something had changed. I had just taken a real step of faith . . . and I knew that if God did not show up in some real way, my life had just gotten a lot worse. I knew that if he did not answer me, I was truly alone in the universe. All my life I’d had the good ol’ American security blanket of There is a God out there who is nice and loves us. But now, I had actually stepped out and asked him to do something. It’s one thing to believe in God and have the security of thinking he exists, even if you have never tested that faith or done anything about it. At least you can believe he’s there and take some bit of naive comfort in that. But once you step out of the boat, I thought, you’ll find out whether or not he is. And if he doesn’t respond, even the little faith you have is gone. It’s one thing to have a faith you don’t use. It’s quite another not to even have an untested faith you can fall back on if you ever decide you want to. I had jumped in.

    I KNEW THAT IF GOD DID NOT SHOW UP IN SOME REAL WAY, MY LIFE HAD JUST GOTTEN A LOT WORSE.

    So far, not so good. No lights, no zapping, no nothing.

    So I just left the church and went back to my room. The emptiness was huge, and I tried not to think about it. What I did not realize was that my entire life was about to change. After I got back to my dorm room, the phone rang. It was a fraternity brother whom I had not talked to in a while. What he said floored me. Okay, you are the last person I would think of calling about this, but for some reason, you kept coming to mind. We’re starting a Bible study, and I wanted to see if you would like to come.

    It was not hard for me to connect the dots and realize that God had heard my prayer. I will be there, I said. Tell me when.

    I went, and it was there I began to discover that what that verse said was true.

    THE SEARCH FOR REAL ANSWERS TO REAL QUESTIONS

    Fast forward about twenty-five years . . . I was sitting on an airplane just enjoying the idea of a few hours of quiet time . . . no kids, no phone, no work. Just a little space in the air to relax, ignore a cheesy movie, and read a good book. Then it happened, my worst in-flight nightmare . . . even worse than bad turbulence. The woman sitting next to me turned to strike up a conversation. On this particular day, that was the last thing I wanted. But she looked at me and asked, So, what do you do?

    Usually, when caught in those kinds of crosshairs, I pull out my secret weapon for making unwanted airplane conversations disappear. I say, I am an author. I write books about God. Almost without exception, that buys me an immediate three hours of silence, as people give some sort of nice nod and raise their newspapers back up to pages they have already read. It always gets me off the hook. But I must have been off my game that day, because I said, Oh, I am a psychologist.

    Wrong answer. She immediately said, Oh, my gosh. I have to tell you about my boyfriend. I need help. I am just stuck and don’t know what to do. I love him so much, but . . . She went on to tell me about her relationship with a guy she was very much in love with but who was pretty self-centered and would get angry when he did not get his way. She described a cycle: Whenever she would say no to him, he would get mad, the controlling behavior would escalate, and they would have a big disconnect. She would feel alone and far away.

    So what do you do then? I asked.

    Well, I can’t stand it when we have a disagreement like that, and I feel so far away from him. I usually just give in, and that makes it okay between us; and we’re fine after that. But it keeps happening a lot, and I just don’t know if I can do this anymore. But I really like him.

    Makes sense that it keeps happening, though, I said. You know, there is an old saying that goes, ‘Do not rescue an angry man, or you will have to do it again tomorrow.’ If you give in, the cycle will only continue—usually for years.

    Oh, my gosh! she said. "That is an amazing saying, that thing about ‘rescuing an angry man.’ That is so true. Where did you get that?"

    It’s in the Bible, I said.

    What? The Bible?

    Yeah. Proverbs 19:19. Check it out.

    No way! I did not know stuff like that was in the Bible. I will have to check that out.

    We went on to talk more about her rescuing patterns of giving in to the temper tantrums of this three-year-old in a thirty-five-year-old body, and it actually was a nice conversation and hopefully helpful to her. But it really had an impact on me. It almost became a defining moment for how I now like to spend a lot of my time and why I wanted to write this book. Why?

    THAT CAME FROM THE BIBLE?

    It was the look on her face when I told her that the saying came from the Bible. She just looked at me, sort of stunned, almost with a blank stare that said, What? Something that was ‘exactly right where I am at’ came from the Bible? She was surprised in a way that was very pure and yet said volumes. The things that it said to me reverberated in my soul and are three things that I am continually amazed at.

    First of all, she was stunned at the accuracy of how the Bible spoke directly to her situation. As a

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