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    Daddy Dates: Four Daughters, One Clueless Dad, and His Quest to Win Their Hearts: The Road Map for Any Dad to Raise a Strong and Confident Daughter
    Daddy Dates: Four Daughters, One Clueless Dad, and His Quest to Win Their Hearts: The Road Map for Any Dad to Raise a Strong and Confident Daughter
    Daddy Dates: Four Daughters, One Clueless Dad, and His Quest to Win Their Hearts: The Road Map for Any Dad to Raise a Strong and Confident Daughter
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    Daddy Dates: Four Daughters, One Clueless Dad, and His Quest to Win Their Hearts: The Road Map for Any Dad to Raise a Strong and Confident Daughter

    By Greg Wright

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    One day motivational leader Greg Wright realized that the four set of pretty young eyes under his own roof were looking to Dad to be strong, fearless, and wise.

    The reality was, the lone male in an all-girl household ("heck, even the dog was female") was only thirty years old and felt like he had been shoved into the deep end of the estrogen pool without swimming lessons.

    That's when the love-struck father of four gorgeous pre-teens started searching for a plan for how to be a successful Dad, and did what any sensible guy would do. He bailed. Not only on his family, but into the woods, to seek a "solution."

    Daddy Dates is an entertaining and practical look at how one American father found his sea legs and is navigating through the tricky waters of parenting girls. In this game-changing book, Greg shares his easy-to-follow secrets for how married and single dads can go beyond high-fiving to bridge the gender gap and become the clued-in man who knows his daughter best.

    Dads have more influence on their girls than anyone.  Learn what makes your daughter tick, how to talk to her effectively and connect more profoundly, at any age.

    If being their hero is your mission, it's not impossible. Daddy Dates is your road map to get there.

    "Hi honey. It's Daddy. I'm calling to see if you'd like to go on a date with me tonight."

    "Um, yes, Daddy I think I would."

    It's a phone call Greg Wright has made over and over again.

    By age thirty, Greg was the overwhelmed father of four beautiful little girls, with one thought running through his mind over and over again: Don't Screw Up.

    Daddy Dates is about a guy taking his best shot at being a successful dad by trying to know his girls?really know their fears, dreams, and opinions?and how he stumbled across an incredible strategy to do that with daughters of any age or stage. This funny, insightful, and relatable book poses the wildly original concept that should be a "duh" for most dads?but isn't. In order to raise a confident woman-to-be, show your daughter what it feels like to be treated with love, respect, and true interest by a man who loves her.

    Daddy Dates is not another "how to" book from a parenting expert. It's a personal, eye-opening, often humorous look at an Average Joe's intentional pursuit of his daughter's hearts and minds, and the love-inspired steps he is taking to solidify Dad's place in each of their lives, forever.

    Whether married or single, Daddy Dates can help you better connect with virtually all of the females in your life. Using Greg's communication cues, you'll be blown away by what you'll learn about your child, and how you can make a powerful, lasting difference?especially during her rocky teenage years.

    Daddy Dates is about one thing?becoming her hero?one date at a time.

    Endorsements:

    –Matt Crossman, Senior Writer for SPORTING NEWS magazine (and father of 2 daughters)

    DADDY DATES wondrously focuses men (and the women who love them) on the affirmation & empowerment  a father’s creative attention, energy, and love can have on the  precious daughters in our lives. 

    –Jan Goldstein, bestselling author of THE BRIDE WILL KEEP HER NAME (and father of 3)

    It’s an easy thing to say that any father with a daughter should read this book.  But, the truth

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherThomas Nelson
    Release dateSep 26, 2012
    ISBN9781595553997
    Daddy Dates: Four Daughters, One Clueless Dad, and His Quest to Win Their Hearts: The Road Map for Any Dad to Raise a Strong and Confident Daughter
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    Greg Wright

    Greg Wright currently lives in River Forest, a western suburb of Chicago, with his wife and ten-year-old son. With a passion for life, a healthy desire to ask “what if,” and a graduate-level education, he has enjoyed writing his whole life.

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      I agreed to review this book so my husband would have it to read.

      However, I found that I really enjoyed this honest narration of this fathers quest to capture his daughters hearts. In all honesty I found myself laughing out loud at this author's honest take on life. This is not a book of formulas to be the best dad but rather an open, transparent narrative of this father's journey. As a father of four daughters Greg Wright draws on his experiences with them. I had to wonder what they thought of this book. I know that as a parent I can totally relate to some of his stories, as a father I know my husband will be able to relate. What makes this book so great is the style of writing. Since it is not a book of "how to" or a list of "don't do's" and "Do's" but rather more like a conversation with a friend it is easily read and enjoyed. Most father's will be able to relate in some way to this man and will find encouragement as they too seek to capture their daughters hearts. I highly recommend this book to fathers.

      Thank you Thomas Nelson (Booksneeze) for this review copy.

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    Daddy Dates - Greg Wright

    daddy dates

    daddy dates

    FOUR DAUGHTERS, ONE CLUELESS DAD,

    AND HIS QUEST TO WIN THEIR HEARTS

    Greg Wright

    9781595553201_INT_0003_001

    © 2011 by Greg Wright and Another Door Opens, L.L.C. f/s/o Diane Dee

    Covey and Karin Maake Tochilovsky

    All rights reserved. No portion of this book may be reproduced, stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means— electronic, mechanical, photocopy, recording, scanning, or other— except for brief quotations in critical reviews or articles, without the prior written permission of the publisher.

    Published in Nashville, Tennessee, by Thomas Nelson. Thomas Nelson is a registered trademark of Thomas Nelson, Inc.

    Represented by David Hale Smith, DHS Literary, Inc.

    Thomas Nelson, Inc., titles may be purchased in bulk for educational,

    business, fund-raising, or sales promotional use. For information, please

    e-mail [email protected].

    Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data

    Wright, Greg, 1970–

         Daddy dates : four daughters, one clueless dad, and his quest to win their hearts / Greg Wright.

             p. cm.

    Includes bibliographical references and index.

    ISBN 978-1-59555-320-1 (alk. paper)

    1. Fathers and daughters. 2. Fatherhood. 3. Wright, Greg, 1970– I.

    Title.

    HQ755.85.W725 2011

    306.874'2—dc22

    2010045900

    Printed in the United States of America

    11 12 13 14 15 QGF 6 5 4 3 2 1

    Contents

    Prologue

    1 The Tree and Me

    2 What Do I Know?

    3 The Pursuit of Happiness

    4 My Date with Destiny

    5 The Wright Way of Thinking

    6 A Walk in the Park

    7 Getting It

    8 Daughter Decoding

    9 Good to Go

    10 How to Talk to a Girl

    11 Totin’ the Load

    12 Friendship Rocks

    13 The River and the Whirlpool

    14 Bumpy Roads

    15 When Daddy Doesn’t Live There

    16 Mommy Dates

    17 The Dao of Dating

    18 Whatever Works

    19 Princess Play-Doh

    20 Tweening

    21 Lucky Number 13

    22 The Apples Grow the Tree

    23 Almost a Woman

    24 College Girl

    25 Sliding into Love

    Afterword

    Daddy Dates Pop Quiz

    Top 15 Daddy Dates

    Acknowledgments

    About the Author

    Prologue

    Let’s be honest. I am completely unqualified to write an advice book. I’m just a guy in Austin, Texas, who woke up one day at age twenty-nine and realized four girls call me Daddy, and all I could think was, how did that happen?

    And a nanosecond later, it hit me: Whatever you do, don’t screw this up, dude.

    Well, I can tell you why it happened. When I was about seventeen, I made a really, really, really strong wish for my life: Please, God, no matter what, I want to be surrounded by beautiful women.

    Today I am. Their names are Victoria, Whitney, Hailee, and Madison, and they are 17, 16, 15, and 13 respectively. I share life with these beauties every day. Although the man of the house messes up on a regular basis, at least my parent passport has four stamps on it and the girls keep letting me into their amazing countries.

    How that miracle happened is what this book is about. I’m hardly Mr. Perfect TV Dad. I guess part of it was getting lucky in the gene pool lottery, but there is one strategy I’ve stumbled upon that I’ve shared with other dads, and it seems to be working for all of us.

    A few years ago I had a paternal ah-ha! moment that changed our lives forever in ways that can been seen now— we have a fantastic relationship, and they’re all doing well in their teen worlds—but hopefully even more later, when they’re parents. (If that’s what any or all of them choose to do, of course.)

    Right now my girls are doing a great job being good human beings. I’m just incredibly lucky that I get a front row seat. Teachers and neighbors always use words like wellmannered, appreciative, creative, and happy, and so far, nobody’s got a terminal case of metal face (yet). My hope is that my girls will, at the very least, turn out to be confident and productive adults who have reasonably good taste in partners, perhaps due (in part) to the way they were raised. Of course, the jury’s still out on the long-term result, but giving the world four sane, loving women is what Dad is trying his best to contribute to the planet.

    Not long ago a couple of friends said, You need to write a book! Yeah, right. Like I’m qualified. But then I conducted a limited focus group at my house, and the girls said, Our friends wish their fathers would do this too. Go for it, Daddy.

    And whenever I mention my strategy to other fathers during one of my seminars or while watching a ballgame or at church, it’s not uncommon for them to ask, How does it work, Greg—I mean, what do I have to do in order to have the same result? And I thought, I don’t think this is quantum physics, but if you need help with a roadmap, sure. I’m in.

    And that’s when I realized that maybe it’s my destiny to share a little idea that came to me as an inspiration one day in the woods . . . I'm pretty sure it was put in my head while He was having a gut laugh remembering my hormonal teen fantasy about how I wanted to live in the company of the lovely opposite sex.

    1

    The Tree and Me

    Idon’t come from a family of girls. I have a couple of brothers and a sister, and then all of a sudden there’s a wife and four daughters, and I’m not even thirty yet.

    I Heck, even the dog is female.

    I never thought I was the type of guy to have kids, and honestly I probably wasn’t the type of guy to get married either. My dad is a country boy at heart, and my mom had a passion for city life, so it came as no big surprise when things didn’t work out.

    As a young man I was very self-centered and more than a little arrogant. It was all about me, man. If they were giving out awards for being selfish, Big Tex would’ve had a hard time pinning a blue ribbon on my puffed up chest at the state fair, it was so big. Definitely.

    But then I met my wife, fell in love, and we tied the knot on Valentine’s Day 1992. I was twenty-one years old. We were only a few months into marriage when my bride gave me a Hallmark card with little booties on it. You’d think that would trigger my comprehension of the big news, but nooooo. What an idiot. When I finally realized she was pregnant, I remember feeling this tiny bit of excitement buried under a mountain of yikes, now what?

    Then came three more precious baby girls—bing, bang, boom. They’re about as close together as you can get without having quadruplets.

    That much estrogen was too much for me to reasonably understand, and I knew that I was in way over my head. When our littlest entered kindergarten, I had a very dramatic feeling that I was in danger of becoming a complete loser in the dad-of-big-girls department.

    Frankly, that thought scared me to death because I knew that when it came to parenting, I was just shooting from the hip every day, and I wanted a solution. I wanted a plan. Now.

    So I did what any reasonable male would do: I bailed. Not on my wife and kids, but to a mountaintop in Colorado. I thought some manly alone time would help me figure out how in the world I was going to handle my responsibilities. I was petrified that I was going to mess up the most important job I’d ever have.

    That’s when I found The Tree.

    I plopped myself down under a big ole pine tree and decided to take a business approach to this problem of dad-being and girl-raising. I took a notepad out of my backpack and clicked the pen a few dozen times, as if revving the engines on the paternal horsepower ready to leap onto the page.

    The truth was anything but. What was I going to do with these four female dependents who depend on me to be the Great Wise One? What do I know about women—of any age?

    That was a nonstarter. I stuck the end of the pen in my mouth and tapped my teeth.

    Okay, relax. I can figure this out. First, I need to set some goals. Yeah, that’s it. But wait, I’m missing real goals in my own life, my own career, and my own marriage. And maybe I ought to get my life together first, because that’s what mature, responsible men do, right? No, forget about all of that, I just need to get more on track with my wife. Or maybe, I should probably create a solid ten-year plan for my business first so I can top off that college fund. And what about retirement, buddy, you haven’t even thought about that . . .

    Somewhere in this vast jumble of rhetorical nonsense, I realized I just needed to stop and focus on my goals for being a dad. Wasn't that my excuse for being here in nature?

    So I clicked the Bic to the on position and wrote down each child’s name.

    Good start.

    Next I’ll make a list of what I really know about them for sure.

    And here’s what I came up with: not much. It wasn’t the first time I had that realization. A couple of weeks earlier, I accidentally overheard (okay, eavesdropped) the girls yakking at the table over homework and was struck dumb by my complete and profound ignorance about my own off-springs’ desires and opinions.

    Clearly, I didn’t have a single clue—not even a clue of a clue—what my girls really thought about the world and what’s important about it. I knew what my experiences of them were, but I couldn’t say that I knew them. I didn’t know what motivated them. I couldn’t answer even the simplest question. How do they see me? How do they see their roles in life? What makes their hearts sing? Is the world good and friendly, or evil and hostile? Is their favorite color pink or purple? Crest or Colgate? Who knew?

    Not Dad, that’s for sure.

    And then it struck me that when I met my wife, I didn’t know anything about her either, but I was lovestruck and did what a guy does when he thinks she’s the one. I made it my mission to find out what she liked so I could be her hero. (Or at least have a shot at being one.) I decided to

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