Discovering Your Identity
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Do you give your name, then describe what you do for a living? Most people answer this question with basic, superfivial information about their lives, but most Christians don't really know the truth about who they are.
You are a saint! If you have accepted Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, then this is the correct answer. And the term saint carries many layers of meaning, all of which is great news. The only right way to understand who we are is to see ourselves from God's perspective, as described in His Word.
This book will lead you through the many layers of understanding who you are in the eyes of God. You are a beloved child of God; you are the heir of God's inheritance; you are a member of the Body of Christ. In short, you are God's Masterpiece!
Features Include:
- Features teachings from one of America's best-loved pastors and theologians
- Topical studies filled with life application principles
- For individual study or to be shared with a small group
Charles F. Stanley
Dr. Charles F. Stanley was the founder of In Touch Ministries and pastor emeritus of First Baptist Church of Atlanta, Georgia, where he served more than fifty years. He was also a New York Times bestselling author of more than seventy books. Until his death in 2023, Dr. Stanley's mission was to get the gospel to "as many people as possible, as quickly as possible, as clearly as possible, as irresistibly as possible, through the power of the Holy Spirit to the glory of God." This is a calling that In Touch Ministries continues to pursue by transmitting his teachings as widely and effectively as possible. Dr. Stanley's messages can be heard daily on In Touch with Dr. Charles Stanley broadcasts on television, radio, and satellite networks and stations around the world; on the internet at intouch.org and through In Touch+ and the Charles Stanley Institute; and via the In Touch Messenger Lab. Excerpts from Dr. Stanley's inspiring messages are also published in the award-winning In Touch devotional magazine.
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Discovering Your Identity - Charles F. Stanley
Introduction
A Fresh Look at Your Identity as a Believer
Every person has an outlook on the world and on life—a way of looking at things, valuing things, judging things. We need to recognize that our perspective is something which we have learned. Many Christians have a wrong understanding about certain things, including the identity that we have as believers in Christ Jesus. Many Christians don’t truly know who they are in Christ. They have misconceptions about why God forgives, what salvation means to our life on this earth, and who God has called them to be.
In order to gain the right perspective on our identity as believers, we need to go to the Word of God and stay there. Books on self-esteem may be helpful to some, but only if the foundation of self-identity is firmly established on what the Word of God says. The Bible is God’s foremost communication on the subject of self-esteem and self-identity. It is the reference to which we must return continually to discover who we are and how we are to respond to life’s situations and to other people. Our perspective is wrong any time it doesn’t match up with God’s eternal truth.
This book can be used by you alone or by several people in a small-group study. At various times, you will be asked to relate to the material in one of these four ways:
1. What new insights have you gained? Make notes about the insights that you have. You may want to record them in your Bible or in a separate journal. As you reflect back over your insights, you are likely to see how God has moved in your life.
2. Have you ever had a similar experience? Each of us approaches the Bible from a unique background—our own particular set of relationships and experiences. Our experiences do not make the Bible true—the Word of God is truth regardless of our opinion about it. It is important, however, to share our experiences in order to see how God’s truth can be applied to human lives.
3. How do you feel about the material presented? Emotional responses do not give validity to the Scriptures, nor should we trust our emotions as a gauge for our faith. In small-group Bible study, however, it is good for participants to express their emotions. The Holy Spirit often communicates with us through this unspoken language.
4. In what way do you feel challenged to respond or to act? God’s Word may cause you to feel inspired or challenged to change something in your life. Take the challenge seriously and find ways of acting upon it. If God reveals to you a particular need that He wants you to address, take that as marching orders
from God. God is expecting you to do something with the challenge that He has just given you.
Start and conclude your Bible study sessions in prayer. Ask God to give you spiritual eyes to see and spiritual ears to hear. As you conclude your study, ask the Lord to seal what you have learned so that you will never forget it. Ask Him to help you grow into the fullness of the stature of Christ Jesus.
Again, I caution you to keep the Bible at the center of your study. A genuine Bible study stays focused on God’s Word and promotes a growing faith and a closer walk with the Holy Spirit in each person who participates.
Lesson 1
You Are a Saint!
In This Lesson
Learning: What exactly is a saint?
Growing: How does sainthood
apply to my self-evaluation?
How do you see yourself? Do you regard yourself as a saint? Each of us acts on the basis of how we see ourselves. Our opinion of self directs and focuses our behavior every hour of every day. If we have a faulty self-image—which is having any self-image other than what God says about us—we behave in a way that is contrary to God’s highest purposes and plan for our lives.
Having a correct self-image is important to the way that we make personal choices, deal with problems, and approach various tasks and challenges in life. A correct self-image also affects the way that we deal with other people.
Jesus taught that we are to love our neighbors as we love ourselves. In other words, we are to love, appreciate, value, and treat others in the same way that we love, appreciate, value, and treat ourselves. If we do not love ourselves in an appropriate way, we cannot love others as God wants us to love them. A healthy, God-based self-image is vital if we are going to relate to others in a truly Christlike way.
Jesus said to him, ‘You shall love the lord your god with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.’ This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’ On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets.
—Matthew 22:37-40
Why does Jesus say that loving your neighbor is like loving God? Why does He list loving God before loving others?
[Your Response Here]
Why does Jesus say, love your neighbor as yourself
? Why not, learn to love yourself, then love your neighbor the same way
?
[Your Response Here]
Why do all the Law and the Prophets
hang
from these two commandments?
[Your Response Here]
The Basis for Your Sainthood
The Bible says that those who believe in Christ Jesus and who have accepted Him as their Savior are saints. Each of us must choose to believe what the Bible says. Do you believe today that you are a saint?
Being a saint is not based upon how you feel. Most of us do not feel like saints on any given day. Feelings come and go. What we feel is often highly unpredictable, and emotions are certainly not a basis for making decisions about one’s identity. For some people, an unruly hairdo or a spilled cup of coffee can ruin a day emotionally. No—emotions are not the basis on which we conclude that we are saints.
Being a saint is not based upon how much we understand about sainthood. Few people can truly say that they understand fully what it means to be a follower of Christ. None of us can fully explain the mystery of why God would choose to love us, forgive us, extend mercy and grace to us, or send His Son to die for us. A finite mind can never understand the infinite wisdom and power of almighty God. No—understanding is not the basis on which we conclude that we are saints.
Being a saint is also not based upon what others say about us. People may have said to you, Oh, you are a real saint!
when