HUNTER JOHNSON MODELS VULNERABILITY

SUBJECT Hunter Johnson

OCCUPATION Facilitator and CEO

INTERVIEWER Nathan Scolaro

PHOTOGRAPHER Hilary Walker

LOCATION Melbourne, Australia

DATE March, 2019

ANTIDOTE TO Hard shells

UNEXPECTED Meaningful bucks party

Some of the most courageous work we can do in our communities is to start new conversations about what it means to be a man. We’ve seen how the long-told narrative that men need to bury their feelings and have it all figured out has been destructive on many levels, and yet we still find ourselves—usually unknowingly—repeating sentiments that reinforce it. The Man Cave, founded by Hunter Johnson and his mates Jamin Heppell and Benton Saulo, is working directly with boys and young men to redefine their ideas of masculinity and ultimately shape the broader culture, so that men can stand in their truth with openness, vulnerability and mutual responsibility.

Since its beginnings in 2004, The Man Cave has engaged more than 25,000 young men across Australia, giving them opportunities to confront their social conditioning and connect with a deeper part of themselves. Hunter works with his facilitators to create safe and non-judgemental spaces in which the boys can take off their masks and feel seen and heard by their peers—often for the first time. The program has gained traction around the world. In 2018, Hunter was named one of the Queen’s Young Leaders, a Commonwealth-wide initiative which honours young people doing extraordinary work in their communities. When he accepted the award at Buckingham Palace, Prince Harry and Meghan Markle said they’d wished the work was around when they were young.

Personable and engaging, sensitive and self-aware, Hunter models the kind of masculinity that he talks about: the kind that we need to heal so much of our current social and systemic dysfunction. He observes that this work isn’t about rejecting the masculine altogether, it’s about acknowledging wholeness—the feminine and the masculine that exists within each one of us—and how certain traits can become destructive when they’re not in balance with others, or given their full expression. After chatting with him for an hour, I felt present to a new wave of leadership, and positive that the deep work of culture change was not only possible, but happening.

“There’s a lot of discussion about encouraging people to speak up about their problems, but there is very little discussion, or skill transfer, about how to support our peers and hold space for them when they do open up.”

NATHAN SCOLARO: Maybe begin by telling us a bit about where the Man Cave is at right now.

HUNTER JOHNSON: For sure. We’ve been working on training up and sending relatable and charismatic young male facilitators into high schools. Guys who are really diverse in their backgrounds, from your classic Melbourne hipster to salt-of-the-earth country bloke to a former child soldier. And as you know it’s a very interesting time for masculinity. We’re getting lots of people coming to us, saying, “I had no idea this existed. I wish this was around when I was younger.” So at the moment we’re growing at a decent rate, focusing on our impact with communities instead of just scaling for the sake of it, and training our facilitators who can relate to the wide range of young men in communities across the country.

And what does the training that