A "Dear John letter" is a letter written, originally to a soldier overseas, by his wife or girlfriend to inform him their relationship is over, usually because the author has found another lover.
While the exact origins of the phrase are unknown, it is commonly believed to have been coined by Americans during World War II. Large numbers of American troops were stationed overseas for many months or years, and as time passed many of their wives or girlfriends decided to begin a relationship with a new man rather than to wait for the original one to return.
As letters to servicemen from wives or girlfriends back home would typically contain affectionate language (such as "Dear Johnny", "My dearest John", or simply "Darling"), a serviceman receiving a note beginning with a curt "Dear John" would instantly be aware of the letter's purpose.
A writer in the Democrat and Chronicle of Rochester, New York, summed it up in August 1945:
An early reference to Dear John letters was made in a United Press article of March 21, 1944.
Dear John may refer to:
Dear John was a British sitcom, written by John Sullivan. Two series and a special were broadcast between 1986 and 1987.
This sitcom's title refers to letters - known as "Dear John" letters - from girls to their boyfriends breaking off a relationship. John discovers in the opening episode that his wife is leaving him for a friend, and he is forced to find lodgings. In desperation, he attends the 1-2-1 Singles Club and finds other members mostly social misfits.
In 1988, an American adaptation of Dear John was produced by Paramount for the NBC network. That series lasted for four seasons.
Speak Now is the third studio album by American singer-songwriter Taylor Swift. It was released on October 25, 2010, by Big Machine Records. Production for the album took place during 2009 to 2010 at several recording studios, and was handled by Swift and Nathan Chapman. Written entirely by Swift as the follow-up to Fearless, Speak Now expands on the country pop style of her previous work, and features lyrical themes including love, romance and heartbreak.
Speak Now received generally positive reviews from music critics, who complimented Swift's songwriting and themes. It received a Grammy Award nomination for Best Country Album, making it her second consecutive nomination in the category, following her 2010 victory for Fearless. Several music critics and publications included Speak Now in their year-end lists. Six singles were released from the album, all of which have either received a platinum or multi-platinum certification from the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA). Swift promoted the album with the Speak Now World Tour, which became the third highest grossing tour of all time by a country artist, grossing over $123 million.
Oh, I used to love you but now that's hard to do
'Cause I got some information 'bout the evil things at night that you do
Now the whole thing is through, we're through
Oh, you're such a devil, how'd you get me to believe you were true, ooh?
Oh, my momma warned me and how my daddy cried
The day I left my home, you said you'd always keep me satisfied
But oh, how you lied, you lied
Well, I should have heard my momma's words
But then I guess I had to much pride, original sin
Oh, I used to lie awake at night and see your face on the ceilin'
What a bad a feelin' I have when I think of how you almost got me
In the ways of the world, in the ways of the world
My so-called friends said I misjudged you, my anger's all in vain
But I'm afraid you got to them before I had a chance to explain
And it caused me such pain, ouch!
'Cause they were such good friends of mine
But now you've got them playin' you game, you creep
Oh, I used to lie awake at night and see your face on the ceilin'
What a bad a feelin' I have when I think of how you almost got me
In the ways of the world, in the ways of the world
Oh, in the ways of the world, in the ways of the world
Well, I believe in Jesus and what he said he's gonna do
He'll put an apple in your lyin' mouth and cook you in a sulfur stew, ooh
One that'll never be through, is it soup yet? No
Ah, but if he hadn't rescued me then I'd be down there cookin' too
Oh, if Jesus hadn't rescued me then I'd be cookin' right next to you, ooh
I used to lie awake at night and see your face on the ceilin'
What a great feelin' I have when I think of how you're gonna get yours
At the end of the world, the end of the world
Oh, at the end of the world, at the end of the world