Famous quotes by Bruno Bettelheim:
"Play reaches the habits most needed for intellectual growth"
"The question for the child is not "Do I want to be good?" but "Whom do I want to be like?""
"The monster a child knows best and is most concerned with [is] the monster he feels or fears himself to be."
"With the very disturbed child, understanding is essential, since we all know sadly that love is not enough."
"Play reaches the habits most needed for intellectual growth."
"Punishment may make us obey the orders we are given, but at best it will only teach an obedience to authority, not a self-control which enhances our self-respect."
"Not only is our love for our children sometimes tinged with annoyance, discouragement, and disappointment, the same is true for the love our children feel for us."
"Raising children is a creative endeavor, an art rather than a science."
"The fear of failure is so great, it is no wonder that the desire to do right by one's children has led to a whole library of books offering advice on how to raise them."