Avoidant personality disorder (AvPD), also known as anxious personality disorder, is a Cluster C personality disorder recognized in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders handbook as afflicting persons when they display a pervasive pattern of social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy and inferiority, extreme sensitivity to negative evaluation, and avoidance of social interaction despite a strong desire to be close to others. Individuals afflicted with the disorder tend to describe themselves as uneasy, anxious, lonely, unwanted and isolated from others.
People with avoidant personality disorder often consider themselves to be socially inept or personally unappealing and avoid social interaction for fear of being ridiculed, humiliated, rejected, or disliked. As the name suggests, the main coping mechanism of those with avoidant personality disorder is avoidance of feared stimuli. Avoidant personality disorder is usually first noticed in early adulthood, with both childhood emotional neglect and peer group rejection being associated with an increased risk for its development.
The world's best has dragged you through it all
A child of misery and dissolutions
Wading in the sorrows
A benchmark of disappointments
I'll make every effort to carry your burdens
Getting past these trying times so you won't be overthrown
A friend loves at all times
I still care
We'll get through this together
Have you found what you've been looking for?
You're still waiting for more love
I'll be waiting for your roots to flourish once more
And your neglect for vision to be restored
Pushing for time to let go (hours and hours)
It's never easy wanting something more
It's a promise, one you can't out grow
Choices and changes you made
But it's still the same