The Development of Children S Belief About Prayer
The Development of Children S Belief About Prayer
The Development of Children S Belief About Prayer
ABSTRACT
In this study we explored the development of children’s beliefs about the concept
of prayer. Three- to 8-year-old children were given a combination of tasks and structured
interview questions designed to assess a number of basic aspects of their concepts of prayer.
We also considered potential relations between children’s concepts of prayer and two
other explanatory systems — naïve psychology and magic — by probing understanding
of the roles of knowledge and thinking in prayer and by comparing beliefs in prayer to
beliefs in wishing. Results revealed signi cantly more sophisticated concepts of prayer than
found in previous studies, including an earlier understanding of its mentalistic nature. We
propose a new developmental trajectory for children’s understanding of prayer and discuss
interrelations between children’s religious beliefs and their developing ontologies.
¤ University
of Texas.
¤¤ Western
Kentucky University.
(e.g., form and movement) and psychological (e.g., seeing and hearing)
human characteristics. At the same time they are granted a number
of abilities that violate our knowledge of what humans can do (e.g.,
invisibility, immateriality, and various psychological properties, such as
omniscience). Like religious entities, religious processes also have this mix
of characteristics. Prayer involves communication between a material being
— a person — and an immaterial being — God. It consists of thinking
about or, in some cases, saying something aloud, and directing that thought
or statement to God in a manner that does not involve normal methods of
communication. Importantly, the process of prayer is not based on physical
principles; it involves direct transmission of thoughts from one individual
to another. Thus focusing on children’s understanding of prayer provides a
perfect opportunity to study a concept that crosses ontological boundaries.
It is also arguably more important to document than children’s beliefs in
magical processes, in that beliefs in prayer among the adult population
in our culture are much more widespread than are beliefs in magic (cf.
Woolley 1997 re: adults’ superstitious beliefs).
Although there has been a recent upsurge in studies of children’s
beliefs about magic (see e.g., Chandler & LaLonde 1994; Phelps & Woolley
1994; Rosengren & Hickling 1994; Rosengren, Kalish, Hickling & Gelman
1994; Subbotsky 1993, 1994), children’s early understanding of prayer is
an infrequently studied topic, even within the study of Western children’s
religious understanding. Goldman (1964), who was primarily interested in
the effectiveness of religious education, carried out a study on the religious
concepts of children aged 6 to 16. One of his foci was children’s beliefs
about prayer. He showed children a picture of a child praying, and asked
a series of questions about the contents and ef cacy of prayer. He found
that almost all the children he tested responded to the question “Does
what the child asks for in prayer ever come true?” in the af rmative. His
results reveal interesting potential commonalities with magical beliefs. In
soliciting children’s explanations for how the child might know that the
prayer came true, he suggests that the thinking of children up to the age
of 9 is characterized by a “magical stage.” This stage re ects what he
calls “magical concepts,” in which material results of prayers appear by
magical power. Goldman states that “Clearly there are strong elements
of magic here,” (p. 185) and likens children’s prayers to “shouting one’s
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Method
Participants
Materials
were asked whether or not it was okay to pray for that item or event and
whether or not they thought the prayer would be granted (Question 7).
To investigate children’s beliefs about the process of prayer, children
were asked, “When prayers come true, is it because somebody makes
them come true, or because it just happens?,” and if they responded with
“someone,” then, “Who makes your prayers come true?” (Questions 8 and
9). Children were also asked, “How does God know what you’re praying
for?,” and “Does God hear your prayer with his ears or does he just know
what you’re thinking?” (Questions 10 and 11).
Entity task. The Entity task involved presenting children with a number
of entities and asking them to indicate which ones possessed the ability to
pray. Children were shown pictures of adults, children, babies, cats and
dogs, owers, and a table, and asked about each, “Can pray?”. The
entities were presented in random order.
Judgment task. The Judgment task was given to each child after the
interview and other tasks were completed. Children were told by the
experimenter that they would hear about some kids who were praying
and some who weren’t, and that their task was to gure out which kids
were praying and which kids were “doing something else.” After a brief
training, children were shown a series of six line drawings. In each story,
the character was described as wanting a certain outcome (e.g., his/her
grandfather to feel better) and possibly engaging in an activity related
to prayer, such as talking or thinking. The six judgment task scenarios
derived from three levels of activity (thinking only, thinking and talking,
not thinking and not talking) and two levels of knowledge about God
(knowledge of God, no knowledge of God). For example, in the thinking
and talking/no knowledge of God condition, children were told, “Here’s
Nancy. She wants her grandfather to feel better. She doesn’t know about
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God. She’s just thinking about her grandfather feeling better and saying
‘I hope my grandfather feels better’.” As a memory check, children rst
were asked to recall whether the story character knew about God. If their
response was incorrect, the story was repeated. After each story, children
were asked to state whether the character was praying or doing something
else, and to explain how they could tell what the character was doing. The
Judgment task items are included as Appendix B.
Parent questionnaire. A brief questionnaire was given to parents of the
children participating in the study to evaluate the religiosity of their home
environments. Parents were asked, “Do you have a religious af liation?”
and if so, “How would you classify your level of involvement with your
religion?” and “What sort of religious activities do you engage in?” (see
Questions 1-3 in Appendix C). They also were asked whether they talk
with their child about religion, and in what type of circumstances they
bring up the topic of religion with their child or their child brings up the
topic of religion with them (Questions 4-6). Parents were asked to rate how
strongly they encourage their child’s involvement in religious activities, to
list the religious activities in which their child participates, and to state how
often their child engages in the activities (Questions 7-9). Lastly, parents
were asked if their child understands the word “pray” or “prayer” and if
their child uses these terms (Questions 10 and 11).
Results
Parent questionnaire
Parents of all but 3 children described their religious af liation as Christian
and most considered themselves moderately active in their religion. Parents
reported an average of two different types of religious activities in which
they regularly engaged at their home, and an average of two different
activities in which they regularly engaged at their place of worship.
These activities included praying, singing, Sunday school, and reading
Bible stories. Sixty-seven percent of parents reported that they prayed at
home, and 67% reported that they attended church regularly.1 Ninety-
four percent reported that they talked regularly with their child about
1
This is most likely a conservative estimate, as the majority of the remaining parents
left this question blank. Because there was no “none” option for parents to check, it is not
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clear whether these parents truly did not engage in these activities or simply skipped this
item for some reason.
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Efcacy beliefs
Children were asked two questions about the ef cacy of their own prayers.
Results indicated that older children (6- to 8-year-olds, M D 70%) believed
their past prayers to have been more successful than did younger children
(3- to 5-year-olds, M D 48%), Â 2 .1/ D 4:58, p < :04. Similarly, older
children (M D 79%) were more certain than were younger children
(M D 59%) that their future prayers would be answered, Â 2 .1/ D 3:87,
p < :05. There were no effects of religiosity on how likely children were
to believe in the ef cacy of their prayers.
Not until age 6 did the type of prayer under consideration affect
children’s claims about whether prayers would be granted. Children were
presented with three stories in which the content of a prayer was considered
to be unambiguously acceptable — a prayer for oneself to recover from
illness, for someone to become one’s friend, and for someone else to recover
from illness. For each, they were asked whether it was “O.K.” to make this
sort of prayer and if so, whether it would “come true.” They were also
presented with two prayers of a questionable nature — praying for candy
and praying for someone to get hurt. Data were initially analyzed in a 6
(age group) £ 2 (religiosity) £ 5 (story type) repeated measures ANOVA.
Results revealed a signi cant effect of religiosity, F .1; 80/ D 5:37, p < :03,
with children from less religious families being more willing to endorse
the acceptability of prayers of all sorts. There was also an interaction
between age group and religiosity, F .5; 80/ D 2:67, p < :03, indicating
that the religiosity effect was primarily due to the performance of children
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in the 3-year-old group. In addition, there was also an effect of story type,
F .4; 320 / D 107:86, p < :01, as well as a trend toward a main effect of
age, F .5; 80/ D 2:32, p D :05.
To explore these effects further, separate chi-square analyses were
performed on each of the different story-types. For all of the positive
items children of all ages almost unanimously endorsed the acceptability of
making such a prayer (M D 94% across all ages), and almost unanimously
said it would be granted (M D 98%). Regarding the “questionable”
prayers, the one involving praying for candy revealed a split between the
two oldest age groups (7- and 8-year-olds) and the younger children in
how acceptable this was deemed. Younger children (M D 65%) were
more accepting of such a prayer than were older children (M D 42%),
2
 .1/ D 4:18, p < :05. A second type of prayer was clearly unacceptable
from an adult point of view — praying for someone to get hurt. Here, even
though the majority of children at all ages denied that this sort of prayer
was acceptable, younger children (M D 23%) again were more accepting
of this sort of prayer than were older children (M D 4%), Â 2 .1/ D 5:23,
p < :03.
Regarding whether, once having prayed for these questionable items
or events, the prayer would actually be granted, the majority of children
who deemed it acceptable to pray for candy believed that their prayer
would be granted. There was no signi cant difference between the younger
and older children, with the average response level at 83%. Regarding a
prayer for someone to get hurt however, of those children who agreed
that it was acceptable to make this sort of prayer (n D 32), there was a
signi cant decrease with age in the number who believed that it would
be granted. Three- and 4-year-old children claimed unanimously that it
would be granted (100%), whereas 60% of the 5-year-olds, 18% of the
6-year-olds, and none of the 7- and 8-year-olds responded in this fashion.
2
 .5/ D 15:79, p < :01.
What does prayer involve for these young children? The rst question we
asked was whether responses to prayers “just happen” or whether someone
was responsible (“: : : does someone make them happen?”). Interestingly
many children responded that responses to prayers “just happen,” that
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there wasn’t a speci c entity who granted them. The data were in the
form of a U-shaped curve however: both younger (3- to 5-year-old) and
older (8-year-old) children overwhelmingly responded that when a prayer is
granted it “just happens” (74% averaged across these age groups) whereas
the 6- to 7-year-olds more often claimed that someone was responsible for
prayers being granted (64%), Â 2 .5/ D 13:45, p < :02. Overall, 42 children
(of 99) responded that someone was responsible; when asked whom, all but
4 of these responded either “God” or “Jesus.”
Results of the Judgment task indicate that by the age of 4 knowing about
God is considered a necessary component of the prayer process. Children
heard 3 stories about characters who were said to know about God and 3
about characters who were said to not know about God, and were asked
to indicate which ones were praying. A 6 (age group) £ 2 (religiosity) £ 2
(story type) repeated measures ANOVA revealed signi cant effects of story
type, F .1; 81/ D 199:24, p < :01, as well as interactions between age
group and religiosity, F .5; 81/ D 3:77, p < :01, and between age group
and story type, F .5; 81/ D 4:08, p < :01. The main effect of story type
was due to children more often claiming that characters who knew about
God were praying (M D :67) than that characters who didn’t know about
God were praying (M D :19). The interaction between age group and
religiosity was due to 3-year-old children from less religious households
claiming more often that characters who didn’t know about God were
praying. Finally, the interaction between age group and story type was due
to a lack of a story type effect in the 3-year-olds, who overall performed at
chance on both types of stories. Results from the Teaching task also indicate
that by the age of 4 children believe that only a character who believes
in God can be considered to be praying. For all age groups except the
3-year-olds the majority of children said that in order to pray the puppet
must believe in God, Â 2 .5/ D 18:69, p < :01:
One focus of our investigation was the nature of transmission of a
prayer from a person to God. Speci cally, we were interested in whether
children endorsed some sort of telepathic process, in which thoughts were
directly transmitted to God, or whether they believed the process to involve
more common methods of transmittal such as God hearing a prayer with
his ears. In the two youngest age groups (3- and 4-year-olds) the modal
response to our initial open-ended question, “How does God know what
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you’re praying for?” was “don’t know,” suggesting that this was probably
something to which they hadn’t given much thought. The majority of the
older children supported the telepathic view, with 64%, 53%, 62%, and
88% of the 5-, 6-, 7-, and 8-year-olds respectively offering a mentalistic
explanation (vs. a physical one), such as that God “just knows” (rather
than having to use his ears). When asked directly whether God hears
one’s prayers with his ears or “just knows what you’re thinking,” 69% of
children overall claimed that he knew what they were thinking; there were
no developmental differences, with the range from 60-81%. Supporting
this nding, few children claimed that prayers must be said aloud (vs. in
one’s head), with the largest number of these responses in the 3-year-olds
(50%), decreasing to 35% in the 4-year-olds, 13% in the 5-year-olds, and
0% in the 8-year-olds, Â 2 .5/ D 14:22, p < :02. Thus it appears that
beginning at age 4 children endorse a telepathic process in prayer.
We also attempted to probe children’s beliefs about the role played
by thinking in prayer. In the Judgment task, children heard 4 stories in
which characters were described as thinking and 2 in which characters
were said not to be thinking about anything. A 6 (age) £ 2 (religiosity) £
2 (story type) repeated measures ANOVA revealed a signi cant effect of
story type, F .1; 81/ D 96:44, p < :01. Children more often claimed that
characters who were thinking were praying (M D :53, averaged across the
4 thinking stories) than that characters who were not thinking were praying
(M D :23, averaged across the 2 not-thinking stories). Knowledge about
God was varied in these stories as well, as discussed above. Thus the .53
gure includes 2 stories in which the character was said to not know about
God. When characters who were said to be thinking and also to possess
knowledge about God are considered, the average score across age groups
was .86.
The ANOVA also revealed a signi cant interaction between age and
story type, F .5; 81/ D 8:58 p < :01. Analysis of this interaction indicated
that the main effect of story type was due entirely to the 5- to 8-year-olds.
As can be seen in Figure 1, whereas each of these age groups showed
a clear story-type effect, both the 3- and 4-year-old groups were equally
likely to say that a character who was not thinking and one who was
thinking were praying. Finally, the ANOVA also revealed a signi cant
effect of religiosity, F .1; 81/ D 4:50, p < :04, which was quali ed by an
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For the 8-year-olds the reverse was true — these older children endorsed
mental aspects more than physical ones, t .12/ D ¡2:21, p < :05.
Lastly, the Entity task, in which children were asked to indicate which
sorts of entities have the ability to pray, was also designed to provide
information about children’s understanding of the nature of prayer. Across
ages, almost all children claimed that both children and adults could pray
(M D 98%). As is apparent in Figure 3, there was a clear decrease in
claims that an entity could pray as the entities became more different
from human adults and children. Human babies were judged as less
able to pray (M D 58%), cats and dogs even less so (M D 39%), and
owers (M D 20%) and tables (M D 17%) least so. A 6 (Age) £ 6
(Entity type) repeated measures ANOVA revealed that these differences
between entity types were signi cant, F .5; 485 / D 136:89, p < :01.
Post-hoc Scheffe tests indicated that adults and children were not judged
signi cantly differently, nor were owers and tables. All other comparisons
were statistically signi cant at p’s < .02.
Discussion
The purpose of the present study is to document the development of
children’s understanding of prayer. This goal is motivated in part by a
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yet, as with the younger ages, they believe that prayers in general are
effective. At this age we see the beginnings of a differentiation between
“good” and “bad” prayers. Importantly, age 5 is the earliest age at which
we see a clear understanding that the act of praying involves thinking about
something. However, thinking is still not considered more important than
the presence of the physical concomitants. At this age children’s concept
also becomes more exible, as revealed in their claims that praying can be
done anywhere. Finally, by age 6, children judge their own prayers to be
an effective means of altering reality. They also are very clear that “bad”
prayers are not acceptable and are not effective. By the age of 7 children
begin to show an understanding of the greater importance of thinking over
the associated physical components, and by the age of 8 this difference
achieves statistical signi cance.
Our results also indicate that children consider the necessary qualities
for prayer to be primarily human qualities. For all ages there was a
signi cant drop from the number of children willing to say that humans
could pray to the number of children willing to grant animals the ability
to pray. Children’s responses also indicate that to pray one must have
something that humans and other animals have and that plants and
inanimate entities do not have, though what that quality might be is not
clear from our data. We also compared reactions to humans of different
ages. This comparison yielded suggestive information on children’s beliefs
about the cognitive prerequisites of prayer. That is, children of all ages
responded less often that babies could pray than that adults and children
could pray. It is possible that children believe that a certain level of
maturity, presumably representing cognitive development, is necessary for
one to be able to pray.
One of the goals of this study was to investigate potential interrelations
between children’s developing concepts of prayer and their developing
theories of mind. That, by age 5, children are aware of the role of thinking
in prayer, and have strong beliefs in its ef cacy, suggests that children
do view mental-physical causality of some sort as operating in prayer. By
the age of 3, children understand that thinking alone does not normally
have a physical effect on the world (Estes, Wellman & Woolley 1989).
Preschool-age children also know a good deal about how information is
normally transmitted. For example, Yaniv and Shatz (1988) have shown
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their beliefs in the ef cacy of this form of mental-physical causality increase
with age rather than decrease as is the case with wishing. However praying
is clearly a more complex process than is wishing. More work needs to
be done to determine exactly how children conceive of the process of
praying, and, in particular, how it ts with their developing knowledge
about both the physical and mental worlds. For example, one of the major
developments in children’s theories of mind at this age involves learning
about communication. How do children conceive of the communication
with God that is involved in praying as tting with their developing
knowledge about ordinary communicative processes? Research should also
continue to probe interrelations between fantastical and religious beliefs.
There are numerous anecdotal observations in the literature that children’s
concepts of Santa Claus and God are related (Clark 1995; Rizzuto 1979).
Although we did not nd strong parallels between concepts of wishing
and prayer, it is still conceivable that religious concepts like God and
prayer develop from or are related to earlier belief in supernatural gures
like Santa Claus and magical concepts like wishing. Finally, Boyer and
Walker (2001) suggest that at about the age of 7 children’s religious
concepts become conceptually much more similar to those of adults, in part
because they recognize the distinction between “implausible” scenarios and
anomalous ones. This claim has yet to be evaluated. These are important
directions for future research on children’s developing concepts of prayer
and other religious concepts.
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Child’s task: To determine which children are praying and which are “doing
something else.”
1. Thinking only / Knows about God
Here’s Stuart. He wants . He knows about God. So he’s thinking for God
to .
2. Thinking C Talking / Knows about God
Here’s Emily. She wants . She knows about God. So she’s thinking for God
to . She’s saying “Please .”
3. Not thinking / Knows about God
Here’s Riley. He wants . He knows about God. But he’s not thinking for
God to . He’s just tired and he’s going to take a nap.
4. Thinking only / Doesn’t know about God
Here’s Jose. He wants . He doesn’t know about God. He’s just thinking .
5. Thinking C talking / Doesn’t know about God
Here’s Nancy. She wants . She doesn’t know about God. She’s just
thinking about and saying “I hope ”.
6. Not thinking / Doesn’t know about God
Here’s Rachel. She wants . She doesn’t know about God. And she’s not even
thinking about . She’s just tired and she’s going to take a nap.