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Laura Forbes | Relationship Coach ❤ on Instagram: "Are you tolerating inconsistency and minimising your needs in order to make a situation/relationship work?

All relationships take a degree of compromise and working together, but if you're repeatedly settling for less than you know you deserve, you may want to ask yourself these questions:

👉 What do I fear will happen if I stop settling or start making requests for my needs to be met?

👉 Which of my boundaries or standards am I compromising or minimising in order for this situation/relationship to work?

👉 What stories am I telling myself and others to justify why I am tolerating a situation/ relationship that doesn't meet my needs?

👉 Am I settling for less than I desire and deserve?

There are many factors that can contribute to un My Boundaries, Relationship Work, Settling For Less, My Needs, Relationship Coach, Ask Yourself, I Deserve, Working Together, You Deserve

Laura Forbes | Relationship Coach ❤ on Instagram: "Are you tolerating inconsistency and minimising your needs in order to make a situation/relationship work? All relationships take a degree of compromise and working together, but if you're repeatedly settling for less than you know you deserve, you may want to ask yourself these questions: 👉 What do I fear will happen if I stop settling or start making requests for my needs to be met? 👉 Which of my boundaries or standards am I…

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Hannah Jane on Instagram: "꩜ I can be vigilant and fearful surrounding being taken advantage of. ꩜ I have found that I can get into a mode of constantly assessing and scanning for the ways my needs may not be met. I want to pour into my relationships, and I understand this psychological response is a way I am trying to keep my self safe from giving too much and being exploited. ꩜ A strategy that has helped me immensely is really beginning to see the ways needs in relationships *conflict*, rather than seeing it as someone is 'failing' to meet my needs. ꩜ This reframe has helped me develop a lot more compassion for others, and a lot more tolerance for the moments when someone can't meet my needs. ꩜ What I have found is good remedy in these situations is to also get real with myself a Compassion For Others, Give Too Much, Relationship Conflict, My Needs, I Am Trying, My Self, I Understand, Get Real, When Someone

Hannah Jane on Instagram: "꩜ I can be vigilant and fearful surrounding being taken advantage of. ꩜ I have found that I can get into a mode of constantly assessing and scanning for the ways my needs may not be met. I want to pour into my relationships, and I understand this psychological response is a way I am trying to keep my self safe from giving too much and being exploited. ꩜ A strategy that has helped me immensely is really beginning to see the ways needs in relationships *conflict…

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I thought this could have been us but you changed. You're not the same person I first met. Your present and your past ex made you different I don't recognize you anymore. You're not in your right mind. Both were and are so wrong for you, but you don't believe that and I am not going to hold my breath patiently waiting for another 6 years until you figure it out. You need to make up your mind. I feel you all the time. What do you want? Ask and Act on it. I Dont Believe In Marriage, I Dont Believe You Anymore, You Won’t Find Another Me, Its Not The Same Anymore Quotes, Go For What You Want Quotes, I Don't Recognize Myself Quotes, I Don’t Recognize You Anymore, My Needs Are Not Being Met, I Don't Need You Quotes

I thought this could have been us but you changed. You're not the same person I first met. Your present and your past ex made you different I don't recognize you anymore. You're not in your right mind. Both were and are so wrong for you, but you don't believe that and I am not going to hold my breath patiently waiting for another 6 years until you figure it out. You need to make up your mind. I feel you all the time. What do you want? Ask and Act on it.

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“If you consistently find yourself pleading for the bare minimum- that is not a reflection of who you are, but rather, it’s a reflection of who you are choosing to date.  You’re not needy. You’re not unworthy or undeserving. You’re not asking for too much. You are asking to be loved in a way that makes you feel safe. And anyone who truly values you, would be willing to give you that security.” Asking Too Much Quotes Relationships, Asking For Bare Minimum, No Affection Quotes, You’re Not Asking For Too Much, You Are Not Too Much Quotes, Being Too Much For Someone, Asking For Too Much Quotes, Bare Minimum Relationship Quotes, Bare Minimum Quotes

“If you consistently find yourself pleading for the bare minimum- that is not a reflection of who you are, but rather, it’s a reflection of who you are choosing to date. You’re not needy. You’re not unworthy or undeserving. You’re not asking for too much. You are asking to be loved in a way that makes you feel safe. And anyone who truly values you, would be willing to give you that security.”

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