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My 2025 in 25 numbers

In 2023, 2024 and 2025, I used my New Year’s Day post to count things. There are only so many times I can recycle an idea, so this may be the end of the road, but here are 25 numbers about my life in 2025, in descending numerical order.


Wendy and I took 3,625 photos

1,282 vs 2024 / 1,948 vs 2023 / ▲ 1,866 vs 2022

Wendy and I were miraculously lucky to have a lovely baby daughter this year, so an increase of 1,000 photos over previous years feels remarkably modest, in all honesty!


I walked 2,558 miles

▲ 344 vs 2024 / ▲ 379 vs 2023 / ▲ 556 vs 2022

The bulk of this was still attributable to walking to and from work, though I have been on a few more intentional long walks for leisure this year. I regularly count my blessings for having the ability to walk to work, more my psychological health than for my legs’ health. My total works out at an average of about 16,500 steps per day.


My car drove 1,034 miles

508 vs 2024 / 1,647 vs 2023 / 797 vs 2022

I didn’t drive my car much in 2025, though some of that is due to driving Wendy’s car more often than previously. I feel very smug at having walked more than twice as far as I drove my car.


I sent 452 personal emails

▲ 17 vs 2024 / ▲ 69 vs 2023 / ▲ 71 vs 2022

Every year, I’m surprised by how high this number is. 2025’s figure has ticked even higher. I don’t really know what I’m doing sending that many emails, though many of them are to myself as reminders!


My tumble dryer completed 400 cycles

▲ 186 vs 2024 / ▲ 207 vs 2023 / ▲ 209 vs 2022

You know that new baby I mentioned…! I’m glad we have a heat pump tumble dryer, which not only records this statistic for me, but also uses way less electricity than the old-fashioned variety.


I took my blood pressure 294 times

16 vs 2024 / ▲ 164 vs 2023 / 134 vs 2022

This is… a bit much. It was probably a bit much even in 2022. But in my defence, my average blood pressure has improved markedly over the intervening years, so I must be doing something right.


I used public transport on 180 days

▲ 14 vs 2024

I’m lucky to live somewhere with decent public transport, and I make good use of it. My legs are my default mode of transport, but public transit comes not far behind. In 2025, I used:

  • the Tyne and Wear Metro on 120 days;
  • buses on 83 days;
  • trains on 31 days;
  • planes on 28 days;
  • the London Underground on ten days;
  • a coach on two days;
  • a people mover on two days;
  • a taxi on two days;
  • and a tram on one day.

I often use multiple modes in a day, hence this list not summing to 180.


I used 125 single-use paper cups for hot drinks

28 vs 2024 / ▲ 37 vs 2023 / ▲ 90 vs 2022

I’ve been aiming to reduce this count for several years now… and I’ve comprehensively failed. I was much poorer at remembering my reusable cup in 2025, though in my defence, 34% of the single-use paper cups I’ve used have been served to me when I’m sitting in a venue. I’m generally not in favour of banning things, but this ought to be banned.


I drank 115 cups of tea

★ New count for 2025

Wendy would probably be pushing towards that number in a week, but I’m not a big tea drinker. In fact, this total is far higher than I would have guessed had I not counted. A breakdown:

  • 71 cups of green tea
  • 37 cups of ‘ordinary’ English breakfast tea, of which one was decaf
  • 5 cups of yerba mate
  • 2 cups of chai tea

I think I may be forced to relinquish my British citizenship as a direct result of these figures.


I placed 81 Amazon orders

65 vs 2024 / 59 vs 2023 / ▼ 137 vs 2022

Did I mention our wonderful new baby? I try to avoid Amazon, but there are times in life when the lowest friction option is the one to reach for, which is why this number has bounced up again this year. Having said that, with the Amazon experience becoming increasingly woeful—a site gummed up with junky products and a courier service that leaves parcels in seemingly random unsuitable places—it’s rapidly becoming much higher friction than it ever used to be.


I swam 70 miles

▲ 5 vs 2024 / 21 vs 2023 / ▲ 9 vs 2022

I mean, a bit more than a mile a week isn’t too bad, is it? As with walking, I swim mostly to maintain my sanity rather than for any physical benefit.


I published 69 blog posts

297 vs 2024 / 296 vs 2023 / 2 vs 2022

I stopped doing daily blogging this year, and it clearly shows.


I drove a car on 53 days

▲ 13 vs 2024

I drive about once a week, which I guess makes me a ‘Sunday driver’ of the type once frequently disparaged. This is not really enough to justify owning a car—it would surely be cheaper to rent one for this frequency of driving—but I’m still a creature of habit.


I placed 49 Deliveroo orders

▼ 11 vs 2024 / 22 vs 2023 / ▼ 73 vs 2022

I don’t think a Deliveroo a week counts as a terrible sin.


I took 37 flights

9 vs 2024 / 26 vs 2023 / 20 vs 2022

I know a few people who have given up flying for reasons of sustainability, which is commendable. I, on the other hand, look like I’m on track to be given an honorary pilot’s licence. There are no good excuses.


I was driven in a car on 32 days

5 vs 2024

I’d rather be a passenger than a driver, and I managed that slightly more often in 2025… though I still not as often as I drove.


I drank 26 disposable bottles of water

★ New count for 2025

This is higher than I would have guessed. I never really buy disposable bottles of water, tap water standards being as high as they are in the UK. Eight of these bottles were bought accidentally in restaurants, when I’d have been perfectly happy with a jug of tap water. The remainder have been complimentary bottles foisted upon me at various opportunities throughout the year.


I borrowed 24 library books

▼ 4 vs 2024 / 3 vs 2023 / ▼ 11 vs 2022

I think this works out to a pretty good proportion of the books I read. Thanks as always to Newcastle City Library and the London Library, from where I borrow from most frequently, though there are at least five other libraries that I occasionally borrow from. I’m very fortunate to be so well-supplied.


I made 24 personal phone calls

▼ 3 vs 2024 / ▼ 8 vs 2023 / ▼ 26 vs 2022

As previously, I only counted actual telephone calls in this total, whereas most of my personal ‘calls’ are via FaceTime or WhatsApp. It feels to me like the traditional phone call is becoming a thing of the past, so I’m not surprised to see that this number is continuing to shrink year-on-year.


I ate 24 servings of ice cream

★ New count for 2025

I’m not really a fan of ice cream, so I’m surprised to learn that I tuck in twice a month. Here are the gory details:

  • Eight M&S birthday cake mochi balls (these are delicious)
  • Six freshly scooped cones of ice cream or gelato
  • Four pre-packed ice cream bars (like Mars ice crems or Haagen-Dazs sticks)
  • Four small pre-packed tubs of ice cream like you get at the theatre
  • Three scoops of ice cream as part of a restaurant dessert

My ice-cream-loving in-laws will be appalled by everything about this count.


I spent 23 nights in hotels

3 vs 2024 / 13 vs 2023 / 4 vs 2022

I think I probably spent more nights staying with relatives in 2025 than previous years, but that’s not something I’ve counted. Four of these nights were in a lodge at Center Parcs, and I’m not sure that truly counts as a hotel.


I visited 5 countries

No change vs 2024 / 1 vs 2023 / No change vs 2022

As previously, I’m counting the UK in this total. None of the visited countries were new to me in 2025, which is more disappointing than the low total.


I wore 5 new pairs of shoes

No change vs 2024 / 2 vs 2023 / ▼ 1 vs 2022

Given how much I walk, this number feels remarkably consistently low!


I made 4 blood donations

No change vs 2024 / ⧓ No change vs 2023 / ⧓ No change vs 2022

Because I donate every twelve weeks, it’s sometimes possible to squeeze five donations into a calendar year if the dates align… but they didn’t in 2025, just as they didn’t in any other year when I’ve been counting.


I cycled 0 miles

No change vs 2024 / ⧓ No change vs 2023 / ⧓ No change vs 2022

I’m no cyclist: I don’t own a bike and haven’t borrowed one since 2021. This has never been a difficult count.

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A moment’s peace on the Wear

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‘Three Days in June’ by Anne Tyler

This was the first of Anne Tyler’s many novels that I’ve picked up, and I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect. As it turned out, I found it to be a gentle, closely observed, and quietly moving book. Tyler takes the narrow frame of a wedding weekend and uses it to reflect on far broader themes: the weight of societal expectations, the different ways people respond to past traumas, and the messy complexity of family dynamics.

The story unfolds over three days: the day before, the day of, and the day after a wedding. It is really a character study rather than a plot-driven tale. Gail, her ex-husband Max, their daughter Debbie and her fiancé, and the various in-laws and hangers-on are all rendered with enough detail to feel convincingly real. I warmed to them, flaws and all. There was a real sense of a lived-in family world: the tensions and misunderstandings were familiar, but so too were the flashes of tenderness and humour.

Reading this just after Nella Larsen’s Passing and Andrew Sean Greer’s The Story of a Marriage gave it an added dimension. Each of those novels, in their different ways, looks at the interplay between love, loyalty, and social constraints. Taken together, they feel like a thematic triptych across time: Larsen’s 1920s Harlem, Greer’s 1950s San Francisco, and Tyler’s present-day Baltimore. Each reveals something of how individuals navigate the gap between private feeling and public expectation, and how private trauma can shape a lifetime.

Stylistically, Tyler’s prose reminded me of Fannie Flagg—light on its feet, yet full of warmth and detail—though this is firmly grounded in the contemporary world. She has that knack of making small domestic moments feel significant, without tipping into sentimentality.

At heart, Three Days in June is a short, understated novel, but one that lingers in the mind. I enjoyed spending time in its world, and I came away feeling I’d met a cast of characters whose lives, while fictional, seemed to illuminate something very real. I thoroughly recommend it.

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Third time lucky

This is Hexham Bridge, which has been crossing the Tyne for 232 years: longer even than it takes to cross the Tyne Bridge at rush hour with the current ongoing restoration work.

Hexham Old Bridge, this bridge’s predecessor-but-one, lasted only a year, swept away in the Great Tyne Flood of 1771.

Its replacement last only a couple of years, swept away by a ‘hurricane’ in 1782.

So when the third Hexham Bridge eventually opened in 1793, even its architect Robert Mylne surely couldn’t have dared to hope that it would still be standing two centuries later… unlike his bridge at Blackfriars in London, for which he’s rather better known, which lasted only a century.

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A moment’s peace on the North Down coastal path

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When Molly lifted Sunderland high

This is Molly: unveiled on the banks of the Wear earlier this year, the statue commemorates the women who kept Sunderland’s shipyards running during the World Wars. She was sculpted by Ron Lawson.

Shipbuilding was a continuous occupation on Wearside for about seven centuries, until the last shipyard closed in 1988. It perhaps lends an extra air of poignancy to the statue to realise that it’s commemorating an important contribution to an industry that no longer exists, and shows a woman at work in an occupation that’s now lost to Wearside history.

The same artist is responsible for this nearby sculpture showing two shipbuilders eating their lunch towards amid a dying industry, perhaps contemplating their employment fate:

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Deeds, not numbers

In my day job, I am the successor to the District Medical Officer referred to in this notice pinned to a wall in an early 1900s school at Beamish.

The list has expanded, though everything on the Beamish list is more or less still on the list today, though not always in quite the same way.

Consumption is, of course, better known now as TB, as notifiable now as it ever was.

Croup can be caused by many things, and isn’t notifiable in itself, but can be a symptom of diphtheria, which is certainly notifiable.

The dodgiest one is erysipelas, a skin infection. This can be caused by a Group A Streptococcus infection, and can be invasive, in which case it would be notifiable.

The first order for the national collation of notifiable disease data in England and Wales was made by the Local Government Board in 1910. The first statistics followed in 1911, though were pretty incomplete, so most data sets only report from 1912 onwards.

A list of notifiable diseases from the early 1900s might therefore seem a bit anachronistic for Beamish’s school—but local systems of notification like this vastly pre-date efforts to collate data on a national footprint. Notification of certain diseases to local medical officers became legally mandated in 1889, and existed in other forms for many years before that.

In the world of twenty-first century public health, my predecessors would be shocked to learn that it’s sometimes forgotten that notification enables (first and foremost) timely action in response to individual cases to protect the population. Compilation of those reports into statistics is an important secondary use—but not the primary aim.

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‘Air’ by John Boyne


With Air, John Boyne brings his quartet of elemental novellas to a close, and it feels like a strong, fitting conclusion—though I was a little sad to finish the series. Like the others, Air is an easy book to read in terms of pace and prose, yet it has serious things to say about how trauma and guilt echo through a lifetime and even across generations. Trauma, and especially sexual trauma, has been the theme running through the quartet. Each novel has approached it from a different perspective and in a different register, and Air feels like both a continuation and a resolution.

This time the focus is on Aaron, an Australian psychologist, and his teenage son Emmet, travelling together on a long-haul flight. The story is simple on the surface, yet through their conversations, silences, and the memories that intrude, Boyne unpacks complex legacies of abuse and loss. Both Aaron and Emmet are characters who feel fully human: flawed, searching, recognisable. I thought the dialogue in particular was strikingly lifelike: it was clipped, awkward, occasionally funny, often freighted with things unsaid.

As with the earlier volumes, what struck me was the quality of the storytelling. Boyne has a knack for stitching together past and present, personal memory and wider history, without the seams showing. It is years since I read Water, yet the connections in Air to earlier characters and settings came immediately to mind. I never felt lost or in need of a refresher, but nor did I feel weighed down by slabs of exposition. That balancing act must have been fiendishly difficult to pull off in practice, but it reads as effortless.

Air may not be as dramatic or heightened as Fire, nor as claustrophobic as Earth, but it closes the cycle with grace and clarity. The quartet as a whole is a study in how people carry damage, sometimes with resilience, sometimes with bitterness, sometimes unknowingly passing it on. To have sustained that theme across four compact novels without repetition, and with each volume offering genuinely different insights, is a real achievement.

Boyne has long been a master of drawing us into characters who are scarred, contradictory and complete. Air is no exception. As a conclusion to the Elements series, it left me satisfied, moved, and ready to recommend all four books.

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A moment’s peace in County Durham

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Indras the elephant packed her trunk and said ‘hello’ to the library

I recently walked past Leith Library which is almost a century old. I did not expect to later discover that, in 1976, an elephant popped in:

This photo is courtesy of The Scotsman, 15 January 1976, where it is reported that:

Indras, a five-year old female elephant now appearing in a circus at Leith Theatre, is helping Edinburgh Library Service in their campaign to remind people to return their books on time. She carried a load of books yesterday to Leith Library, where Mr Peter Allan (70), of Portland Street, Leith (left), questions whether the table will stand her weight.

The past truly is a different universe.

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