Sauna Day

Didn't think I could stay away that long haha... konon-nya want to change my ways, though I don't see the harm in the occasional visit (adhering to the Golden safety rules of course!) considering my dating life is dry as the Sahara...

Haven't been since the raids happened last November, so you can say I'm rusty. Thank goodness my mojo magically returned the moment I stepped into the zone. Not sure if I should be happy or sad to say it felt comforting to be back.... just to be in the presence of like minded people, not to mention the crowd today was HOT! You feel at ease, and naturally slutty ;)

The one major thing I noticed that has changed since my first visits bout 2 years ago.... younger boys are showing up, which basically means I'm getting old :O hahaha... Nice to see those young slim, clueless chaps wandering around like Bambi while I stroll & pose like a seasoned pro :P

I'm not into the young, twinky boys so my landscape becomes kind of reduced. The ones I like, the older, hunkier ones, become the guys that get all the attention and are chased around like bees to honey.... Competition is pretty strong these days, if you see a guy you like and hesitate to make a move, next thing you know some slutty brave horny soul will beat you to it and off they go into a private room.... Mehhhhh

That was what happened today! The crowd was damn fine, seriously I don't remember the guys being like that LOL.... it really depends on your luck, some days it's like striking the jackpot, and sometimes it gets pretty shitty depressing.

The funny thing today is that I had my eye on 2 guys, I haven't even decided on which one to go for.. The cute-hot slimmer one (who was kinda like me) was making some eye contact and staying close to me, while the other hunkier hottie with curly Korean hairstyle (not really Korean) was just moving around scanning the place... Before I could make a move, 2 random guys started exhibiting in the maze, kissing & sucking openly, attracting an audience around them. Rare to see hot guys with full hard ons just putting on a show for everyone...  I was watching nearby, then the hunky Korean hair guy suddenly walked in and joined them with a full hard on. Damn his chest was yummy! The slimmer guy was also watching nearby... Not long after, the show dispersed and Korean hair guy moved deeper into the dark area, obviously there was a bunch of guys tailing him, including Slimmer guy. I quickly followed behind to see how things develop, but it didn't take long for Korean hair guy and Slimmer guy to catch each others' eye, they were holding hands and walking into the private room.... still a bunch of guys were following behind until they shut the door LOL.... And I was like damnnnnn!!! I should have made a move, or boldly ask if they wanted a 3rd wheel LOL!

Not long after, Korean hair guy came out with Slimmer guy, they went out to get condom and lube, before heading back in. There were some very loud noises emitting from the room, it turned me ON so badly haha! Later I saw Korean hair guy leaving, but Slimmer guy was still hanging around in the maze... not sure if they both got the ending they wanted haha... Seriously they are both so good looking and so my type, it was like watching live porn :P

As for me, I was glad that I still got decent attention, obviously not as much as those two, but I would consider it a win considering the quality of the crowd :)

I think I'm at a place where I feel good enough about myself to not need to frequent these places regularly... this was just a quick fix. I used to get so attached to saunas, but now I'm glad I don't feel the urge to come back so soon..

I'm definitely searching for decent dates, and lately Jack'd hasn't been too bad! It's rare to have decent conversations on apps these days, but I just made a new hot friend today. The only catch is, he's a pure bottom haha!! At least that means we can just chat and be friends :P

2014 looks better already,
XOXO

Giveaways

Nope. Sorry not giving out freebies here haha. I meant the other 'giveaway', like something about you that gives you away to someone else about something. OK wow I suck at defining things haha!

Sudden urge to blog since I'm on MC today after eating some bad food (that would be a nice way of describing what I went through over the long weekend).

I guess the consolation would be sighting this really hot-handsome guy at a Chinese restaurant over dinner with family. He was at the next table, and my seat was positioned to give me a direct view of him :)

The first thing that went through my mind: He's gay. Like a thousand percent. Like it's so obvious you would have to be blind to miss it. But despite the striking gay-ness, he still has the ability to come across as macho and charming, if you know what I mean. Otherwise I wouldn't even be attracted. It's like the... very refined, urban male, but not crossing the line of being bitchy or feminine. We were in Bangsar after all.

Now what is it about him that compelled me to write an entire post......... He's very different from Joe. So the appeal is completely different, yet I was attracted.... lately people ask me 'what's my type?' I think I'm beginning to be able to define my 'type' better the more I know myself, which is quite surprising.

For the fun of it, let's do a Joe vs Urban Guy comparison (almost wanted to make a Microsoft Word table but too lazy):
Build - Joe: Muscular hunk; Urban Guy: Toned arms but not hunky, gyms
Height - About the same, both taller than me by a head
Skin - Joe: Dark & tanned; Urban Guy: Smooth & fair
Dress sense: Joe: casual T-shirt guy; Urban Guy: label wearing guy, good taste
Hair style: Joe: No hair. Shaved head LOL; Urban Guy: Fancy, with shaved sides & neatly gelled & styled at the top
Mannerism/Personality: Joe: down to Earth, quietly sexy; Urban Guy: live of the party, outspoken
Imagined Occupation: Joe: Marine/Fire Fighter; Urban Guy: Suit-wearing seducer exec

As you can see, very different, but both I like :P

Urban guy, he's... very good looking, like Singaporean lengzhai type. He was talking and laughing loudly with his family. It's the combination of hair, dressing, looks, way of interacting with other people that gives him away as gay. Not entirely queer but queer enough. Sorry it took so long to get to my point haha. But the ultimate giveaway? He was wearing a tight A&F T-shirt. Now I know you guys will say that's a generalization, but trust me, with all the other factors combined, he's gay. Besides, no straight guy in his right mind would spend so outrageously on the most basic looking T-shirt. Heck, even I won't buy one hahahahaha. So far, ALL the guys that I have seen sporting an A&F shirt ticks off my radar. GIVEAWAY.    

The only question I had in mind, not on his sexuality, but whether his family, who were all seated at the table, had any inclination of what I, as a stranger, had just detected in a minute of seeing him. GIVEAWAY. OK now I'm just trying to enforce that word haha.

Halfway typing this post (while listening to Your Body) I had a greater realization. By comparing Joe and Urban Guy, it kind of puts Joe's sexuality more into perspective. Like when you see an apple you don't really think it's that round, but when you put it next to a pear, then you realize the apple really IS round. So I guess I need to see more clearly next time to avoid falling for straight guys again.
Or the other lesson from this encounter is that, maybe I should go for guys that are more like Urban Guy. Still has what it takes to make my heart skip a beat by being macho enough, while having a higher probability of being one of us with all the urban-ness and erm A&F shirts haha!!

P.S. Oh crap, forgot to mention some other stuff! Like how I wasn't able to get a photo of him because I was with family, and my spy shooting skills are not as refined as William or tuls. And yes, I did want to confirm my theory by turning on Grindr & Jackd, but my stupid GPS wouldn't update my location hahaha!! *modern day problems*

I enjoyed writing this one,
XOXO

New Year, New Jockstrap!

Hahaha to celebrate the new year, I bought my first ever pair of jockstraps! It's the Renoma X-treme Sport - Sport Strap series. As the name says, it has that sporty mesh and feel :P

http://www.ebay.com/itm/Renoma-2-Pcs-X-Treme-Sport-Strap-REY-332-Size-S-M-L-XL-/380798752008

You can find this in major department stores like Parkson and Tangs.

Felt so sexy putting it on. It was more comfortable than I expected. The back feels so airy hahaha because it's completely exposed. A new sensation indeed.

Leonut asked who am I going to wear it for? I guess the only rational answer is for my future date or bf haha. Kinky sex is expected!

Jockstraps aren't really practical to wear out though. Imagine going out to dinner or hanging out with friends in these. The butt would feel a little..... exposed right? XD

Will reserve it for special occasions ;)

Happy 2014 peeps!

XOXO