Healthy Relationships

An underrated quality in secure romantic relationships
I try to be intentional about living these traits and also only pursuing those who exhibit them. This work requires me to be open and patient when getting to know people as some of these develop from trust and take time. #couplestherapy #healthyrelationships #growth #selfhealers #selfawareness #boundaries #conflictresolution #healthycommunication #healingjourney #emotionalregulation #emotionalawareness #relationshiptips #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi #selfawareness
5 soothing statements for secure relationships
Your words have the power to calm or cause chaos. Choose them with care ♥️ #couplestherapy #healthyrelationships #growth #selfhealers #selfawareness #boundaries #conflictresolution #healthycommunication #healingjourney #emotionalregulation #emotionalawareness #relationshiptips #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi #selfawareness
Blame in relationships
If you’re a human, chances are that you have said the wrong thing to people you care about or hurt someone’s feelings when you didn’t intend to. It happens to all of us and it’s okay *as long* you accept that making repairs is also a part of this process. If you struggle with managing your emotions and getting to the point of making repairs, it can be really detrimental to your relationships. But it IS something you can improve. #selfawareness #relationshiptips #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi
Unspoken boundaries
Sometimes, it’s really important to be vocal about your boundaries. Other times, it’s actually more impactful to recognize the need for a boundary and then change your behavior without announcing it to the other person. A part of your emotional growth journey will require you to identify which option is better for your peace. –– #boundaries #healthyrelationships #conflictresolution #selfawareness #healthycommunication #healingjourney #relationshiptips #secureattachment #nervoussystem
Healthy boundaries with your partner sound like
How you express yourself can make all the difference. Note: healthy boundaries won’t work with everyone — people need to have the capacity, EQ, and be in a place to understand or receive them. It’s up to you to figure out when it’s time to move on instead of continuing to convince them to honor your needs ♥️ –– #boundaries #healthycommunication #couplestherapy #healthyrelationships #selfawareness #conflictresolution #relationshiptips #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi
Are they gaslighting you?
Why do people gaslight? Here are some common reasons why people feel the need to resort to this behavior: • They crave control/power of others • They want to avoid losing a relationship #gaslighting • They were modeled similar behavior by parents • They have a history of unhealthy attachments • They have a strong need to always be right • They believe that they are superior to others • They develop a pattern to protect themselves • They're afraid of appearing "weak" (vulnerable)
5 simple phrases that will improve your relationship
Sometimes, the shortest statements can have the strongest impact 🫶🏻 I’m passionate about helping people develop a more secure relationship with themselves and others. Follow along with me to learn tools: @your.being -- #Relationships #Insecure #Feelings #Trigger #Attachment #Being #Mental #Health #Wellness #NYC #Manhattan #Therapy #Psychotherapy #Secure #Security #Anxiety #Stress #Calm #Breath #Avoidant #Autonomy #Help #Distance Sadaf Siddiqi Your Being
The difference between critical and constructive responses in relationships
Feeling unseen by your partner is one of the easiest ways to build resentment in your relationship. #Relationships #Insecure #Feelings #Trigger #Attachment #Being #Mental #Health #Wellness #NYC #Manhattan #Therapy #Psychotherapy #Secure #Security #Anxiety #Stress #Calm #Breath #Avoidant #Autonomy #Help #Distance Sadaf Siddiqi Your Being If you want to work with me, send me a message on my website! https://www.sadafsiddiqi.com/connect
The difference between insecure versus secure responses in relationships
These are some key traits that differentiate an insecure response from a secure response. Accountability + boundaries + communication + cooperation + empathy + flexibility + respect + self-care + trust + vulnerability = Secure attachment style ⁣ #Relationships #Insecure #Feelings #Trigger #Attachment #Being #Mental #Health #Wellness #NYC #Manhattan #Therapy #Psychotherapy #Secure #Security #Anxiety #Stress #Calm #Breath #Avoidant #Autonomy #Help #Distance Sadaf Siddiqi Your Being
Ways to increase emotional attraction
A reminder that attraction isn't always physical or instant! Emotional attraction is different because it's deeper — not only does it draw you to someone but it *keeps* you feeling connected to them in meaningful ways. ⁣ ⁣⁣ --⁣ #emotionalattraction #mentalhealthtips #relationshiptips #selflove #therapy #emotionalhealth #anxietytips #anxious #relationshiptips #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #selfawareness
Growth in romantic relationships
Giving your partner space to just be is one of the most effective ways to reset. Now, let’s be clear on what counts as space and what doesn’t count as space. Space is NOT the same thing as ignoring, shutting down, stonewalling, or the silent treatment. It is also not meant to “teach them a lesson”. — #greenflags #couplestherapy #relationshiptips #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi #selfawareness #selflove #selfhelp #psychology #therapy #psychotherapy #healing #heal
5 green flags to look out for in new relationships
This list is not exhaustive. For those of you who are in a new relationship (with a partner or a friend), what are other traits you are assessing along the way? I’m passionate about teaching people how to have healthy and secure relationships. Follow along with me as I share tips for you to use daily: @your.being ❤️ #Relationships #Insecure #Feelings #Trigger #Attachment #relationshiptips #couplestherapy #boundaries #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi #selfawareness
7 harmful patterns to stop in relationships
What else would you add to this list? 👇🏼 — #relationshiptips #couplestherapy#boundaries #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi #selfawareness
7 harmful patterns to stop in relationships
What else would you add to this list? 👇🏼 — #relationshiptips #couplestherapy#boundaries #secureattachment #nervoussystem #yourbeing #sadafsiddiqi #selfawareness