Give yourself what you need

[e-see-eh-new / here & now] on Instagram: "Let’s change the narrative—you do not need to FIND your purpose, you must RE-discover what has inherently been yours since day one. We all have one, we just dont know ourselves well enough to figure it out. So spend time dissecting yourself and getting to know yourself. What drives you? What are you naturally good at? What are you passionate about? What brings you joy? What makes you feel alive? Start there. The rest will unfold. Over the past few…

...because in the end...you can only count on and trust yourself..

Sasa Elebea is an Argentinean entrepreneur and illustrator who lives and works in Tel Aviv. Her works consist of empowering quotes on feminine objects and illustrations of women.

When we are constantly doing for others, it is easy to place our value and worthiness in those things. But, friend, you are not what you do. You are more than your mistakes. You are more than your successes. You are always worthy of grace and compassion. If no one else will give it to you, give it to yourself. And, perhaps most importantly, receive it. Do you know someone who needs this today? Share this post with them!

So true, when caught up in giving mode, it’s hard to see what you need for yourself

I mean holy moly, what is surfacing for so many of us is just next level right now. When you take the inward time to really understand the upgrade that is trying to come through you, it can change your energetics on a whole new level! You have everything you could possibly need inside of you. When you realize that, you can drop externally seeking the approval or answers that you think someone outside of you can give you, and start to tap inward to find them yourself! The is the real begin...

I know it is cliche to say “been there, done it,” but believe me when I say I talked the talk and walked the walk. Like most of you, my relationship with perfectionism kickstarted in adolescence. It went unnoticed and often welcomed; after all, who would complain of having a teen who gets straight As and doesn’t cause much trouble. I didn’t realize how much my perfectionism would be amplified when I moved to the States two weeks before my 15th birthday. Many years spent fitting in, making…