Add TupleTableSlotOps.is_current_xact_tuple() method

Add TupleTableSlotOps.is_current_xact_tuple() method

This allows us to abstract how/whether table AM uses transaction identifiers.
A custom table AM can use a custom slot, which may not store xmin directly,
but determine the tuple belonging to the current transaction in the other way.

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Reviewed-by: Matthias van de Meent, Mark Dilger, Pavel Borisov
Reviewed-by: Nikita Malakhov, Japin Li