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A '''boyfriend''' is a man who is a [[Friendship|friend]] or [[Interpersonal relationship|acquaintance]] to the speaker, often specifying a regular male companion with whom a person is [[Platonic love|platonically]], [[Romance (love)|romantically]] or [[Sexual relationship|sexually involved]].<ref>Compact Oxford English Dictionary of Current English , published 23 June 2005, University of Oxford, {{ISBN|978-0-19-861022-9}} edition</ref> |
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A boyfriend can also be called an admirer, beau, suitor and sweetheart.<ref>{{cite web|last=Thesaurus.com|title=Boyfriend|url=http://thesaurus.com/browse/boyfriend?s=t|access-date=6 May 2012}}</ref> The analogous term for women is "[[girlfriend]]". |
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==Scope== |
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[[File:Bundesarchiv Bild 183-P0310-0025, Berlin, Straßenszene.jpg|thumb|A woman with her boyfriend at [[Alexanderplatz]] in March 1975 |
[[File:Bundesarchiv Bild 183-P0310-0025, Berlin, Straßenszene.jpg|thumb|A woman with her boyfriend at [[Alexanderplatz]] in March 1975]] |
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[[File:Gay Couple Savv and Pueppi 02.jpg|thumb|A man with his boyfriend |
[[File:Gay Couple Savv and Pueppi 02.jpg|thumb|A man with his boyfriend]] |
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Partners in committed non-marital relationships are also sometimes described as a ''[[significant other]]'' or ''partner'',<ref>{{cite web|last=Thesaurus.com|title=Significant other|url=http://thesaurus.com/browse/significant+other?s=t| |
Partners in committed non-marital relationships are also sometimes described as a ''[[significant other]]'' or ''partner'',<ref>{{cite web|last=Thesaurus.com|title=Significant other|url=http://thesaurus.com/browse/significant+other?s=t|access-date=6 May 2012|archive-date=9 March 2018|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20180309183016/http://www.thesaurus.com/browse/significant+other?s=t|url-status=dead}}</ref> especially if the individuals are cohabiting. |
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A 2005 study of 115 people ages 21 to 35 who were either living with or had lived with a romantic partner notes that the lack of proper terms often leads to awkward situations, such as someone upset over not being introduced in social situations to avoid the question.<ref>{{cite news|last=Jayson|first=Sharon|title=Adults stumble over what to call their romantic partners|url=https://www.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2008-06-22-adult-dating-descriptor_N.htm|access-date=6 May 2012|work=USA Today|date=23 June 2008}}</ref> |
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A 2005 study of 115 people ages 21 to 35 who were either living with or had lived with a romantic partner notes that the lack of proper terms often leads to awkward situations, such as someone upset over not being introduced in social situations to avoid the question.<ref>{{cite news|last=Jayson|first=Sharon|title=Adults stumble over what to call their romantic partners|url=https://www.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2008-06-22-adult-dating-descriptor_N.htm|accessdate=6 May 2012|work=USA Today|date=23 June 2008}}</ref> |
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There is a significant difference between ''[[girlfriend]]'' and ''boyfriend'', and ''girl friend'' and ''boy friend''. In a strictly grammatical sense, a ''girlfriend''{{Hair space}}<ref name="girlfriend"/> or ''boyfriend{{Hair space}}''<ref name="boyfriend"/> is an 'individual of significance' with whom one shares a relationship. |
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==Word history== |
==Word history== |
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The word ''dating'' entered the American language during the [[Roaring Twenties]]. Prior to that, courtship was a matter of family and community interest. Starting around the time of the [[American Civil War]], courtship became a private matter for couples.<ref name="Hirsch">{{cite web|last=Hirsch|first=Elaine|title=The History of Dating and Communication|url=http://www.communicationstudies.com/the-history-of-dating-and-communication| |
The word ''dating'' entered the American language during the [[Roaring Twenties]]. Prior to that, courtship was a matter of family and community interest. Starting around the time of the [[American Civil War]], courtship became a private matter for couples.<ref name="Hirsch">{{cite web|last=Hirsch|first=Elaine|title=The History of Dating and Communication|date=November 2011|url=http://www.communicationstudies.com/the-history-of-dating-and-communication|access-date=6 May 2012}}</ref> In the early to mid 19th century in the US, women were often visited by "gentleman callers", single men who would arrive at the home of a young woman with the hopes of beginning a [[courtship]].<ref>{{cite web|last=Hunt|first=Lana J.|title=Ladies and Gentleman|url=http://www.angelfire.com/ar3/townevictorian/ladiesgentlemen.html|access-date=6 May 2012|url-status=dead|archive-url=https://web.archive.org/web/20120728021740/http://www.angelfire.com/ar3/townevictorian/ladiesgentlemen.html|archive-date=28 July 2012}}</ref> The era of the gentleman caller ended in the early 20th century and the modern idea of dating developed.<ref name="Hirsch" /> |
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In literature, the term is discussed in July 1988 in [[Neil Bartlett (playwright)|Neil Bartlett]]'s |
In literature, the term is discussed in July 1988 in [[Neil Bartlett (playwright)|Neil Bartlett]]'s ''Who Was That Man? A Present for Mr Oscar Wilde.'' On pages 108–110, Bartlett quotes from an issue of ''[[The Artist and Journal of Home Culture]]'', which refers to [[Alectryon (mythology)|Alectryon]] as "a boyfriend of [[Mars (mythology)|Mars]]". |
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==Synonyms== |
==Synonyms== |
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*An older man may be referred to as a sugar daddy, a well-to-do man who financially supports or lavishly spends on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend.<ref>{{cite web|last=Merriam-Webster|title=Sugar daddy|url=http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sugar%20daddy| |
*An older man may be referred to as a ''[[sugar daddy]]'', a well-to-do man who financially supports or lavishly spends on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend.<ref>{{cite web|last=Merriam-Webster|title=Sugar daddy|url=http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/sugar%20daddy|access-date=6 May 2012}}</ref> |
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*In popular culture, slang, internet chat, and cellphone texting, the truncated [[acronym]] ''bf'' is also used.<ref>[http://www.acronymfinder.com/af-query.asp?Acronym=bf&Find=find&string=exact BF – Definition by AcronymFinder<!-- Bot generated title -->]</ref> |
*In popular culture, slang, internet chat, and cellphone texting, the truncated [[acronym]] ''bf'' is also used.<ref>[http://www.acronymfinder.com/af-query.asp?Acronym=bf&Find=find&string=exact BF – Definition by AcronymFinder<!-- Bot generated title -->]</ref> |
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*Leman, an archaic word for "sweetheart, paramour," from Medieval British ''leofman'' (c.1205), from Old English ''leof'' (cognate of Dutch ''lief'', German ''lieb'') "dear" + ''man'' "human being, person" was originally applied to either gender, but usually means mistress.<ref>{{cite web|last=The Free Dictionary By Farlex|title=Leman|url=http://www.thefreedictionary.com/Leman| |
*''Leman'', an archaic word for "sweetheart, paramour," from Medieval British ''leofman'' (c.1205), from Old English ''leof'' (cognate of Dutch ''lief'', German ''lieb'') "dear" + ''man'' "human being, person" was originally applied to either gender, but usually means mistress.<ref>{{cite web|last=The Free Dictionary By Farlex|title=Leman|url=http://www.thefreedictionary.com/Leman|access-date=6 May 2012}}</ref> |
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* The term ''young man'' was at some periods used with a similar connotation. For example, in the 1945 film |
* The term ''young man'' was at some periods used with a similar connotation. For example, in the 1945 film ''[[My Name Is Julia Ross]]'' the female protagonist, seeking a secretarial job, is asked if she has "a young man"<ref>{{cite web|last=Aliperti|first=Cliff|title=My Name is Julia Ross (1945) starring Nina Foch and George Macready|date=25 July 2010|url=http://www.things-and-other-stuff.com/6656/my-name-is-julia-ross-1945/|access-date=6 May 2012}}</ref> – where in later films a similar question would have referred to "a boyfriend". |
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==See also== |
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==References== |
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<ref name="girlfriend">{{cite web|title=Girlfriend|url=http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=girlfriend|publisher=[[WordNet]]|accessdate=11 November 2010}}</ref> |
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<ref name="boyfriend">{{cite web|title=Boyfriend|url=http://wordnetweb.princeton.edu/perl/webwn?s=boyfriend|publisher=[[WordNet]]|accessdate=11 November 2010}}</ref> |
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==External links== |
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A boyfriend is a man who is a friend or acquaintance to the speaker, often specifying a regular male companion with whom a person is platonically, romantically or sexually involved.[1]
A boyfriend can also be called an admirer, beau, suitor and sweetheart.[2] The analogous term for women is "girlfriend".
Scope
Partners in committed non-marital relationships are also sometimes described as a significant other or partner,[3] especially if the individuals are cohabiting.
A 2005 study of 115 people ages 21 to 35 who were either living with or had lived with a romantic partner notes that the lack of proper terms often leads to awkward situations, such as someone upset over not being introduced in social situations to avoid the question.[4]
Word history
The word dating entered the American language during the Roaring Twenties. Prior to that, courtship was a matter of family and community interest. Starting around the time of the American Civil War, courtship became a private matter for couples.[5] In the early to mid 19th century in the US, women were often visited by "gentleman callers", single men who would arrive at the home of a young woman with the hopes of beginning a courtship.[6] The era of the gentleman caller ended in the early 20th century and the modern idea of dating developed.[5]
In literature, the term is discussed in July 1988 in Neil Bartlett's Who Was That Man? A Present for Mr Oscar Wilde. On pages 108–110, Bartlett quotes from an issue of The Artist and Journal of Home Culture, which refers to Alectryon as "a boyfriend of Mars".
Synonyms
- An older man may be referred to as a sugar daddy, a well-to-do man who financially supports or lavishly spends on a mistress, girlfriend, or boyfriend.[7]
- In popular culture, slang, internet chat, and cellphone texting, the truncated acronym bf is also used.[8]
- Leman, an archaic word for "sweetheart, paramour," from Medieval British leofman (c.1205), from Old English leof (cognate of Dutch lief, German lieb) "dear" + man "human being, person" was originally applied to either gender, but usually means mistress.[9]
- The term young man was at some periods used with a similar connotation. For example, in the 1945 film My Name Is Julia Ross the female protagonist, seeking a secretarial job, is asked if she has "a young man"[10] – where in later films a similar question would have referred to "a boyfriend".
See also
References
- ^ Compact Oxford English Dictionary of Current English , published 23 June 2005, University of Oxford, ISBN 978-0-19-861022-9 edition
- ^ Thesaurus.com. "Boyfriend". Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ Thesaurus.com. "Significant other". Archived from the original on 9 March 2018. Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ Jayson, Sharon (23 June 2008). "Adults stumble over what to call their romantic partners". USA Today. Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ a b Hirsch, Elaine (November 2011). "The History of Dating and Communication". Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ Hunt, Lana J. "Ladies and Gentleman". Archived from the original on 28 July 2012. Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ Merriam-Webster. "Sugar daddy". Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ BF – Definition by AcronymFinder
- ^ The Free Dictionary By Farlex. "Leman". Retrieved 6 May 2012.
- ^ Aliperti, Cliff (25 July 2010). "My Name is Julia Ross (1945) starring Nina Foch and George Macready". Retrieved 6 May 2012.
External links
Look up boyfriend in Wiktionary, the free dictionary.