歧视。。

当多过一个人做了旁人看不顺眼的事。。
大家就会把他们归类。。
如果刚巧多数者来自同一家乡/学校/种族。。
歧视就发生了。。
不止是当事人被骂。。
整个家乡的乡亲，学校的学生，种族的同胞。。
都会无辜被骂。。

所以呢。。
如果抱着错误的态度作人。。
不止是自己受骂。。
还牵连了无辜的同乡，同学，同胞。。

下次想做坏事前，
还是仔细想想吧。。

求婚记。。

绅士的品格终于大结局了。。
20集的Drama花了2个月。。

大结局的求婚
很戏剧。。
但很浪漫。。
全部朋友都出现，为求婚贡献一分力。。

想起了自己的求婚记。。
其实也很特别。。
毕生难忘。。
其实我的男人也蛮浪漫一下。。
也是朋友总动员。。
感动了。。哭了。。大家都眼红了。。

我就这样。。
升为人妻了。。 <3 p="p">

Appreciation

life is so fragile..
a single hit
a tiny fall
or a micro blockage of the little blood vessels can take away our lives...

we can never predict what will happen the next second..

must always practice appreciation..
learn to love all the things around
 and be grateful about what we have and what we dont...
appreciate every single being alive..
so do the things when u think is right
and say sorry to the person u have done wrong
when u still have the chance..

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and yeah,
i have upgraded myself to be Mrs Tay. ^^
gotta appreciate this change of phase in my life

the long awaiting trip.. =) T.A.I.W.A.N

日月潭 (Sun-Moon-Loch)


this will the longest trip since graduation..
this time however,
not a backpacking trip..
but a private-coach trip..

cant wait to get away from the routine working life
away from the nasty patients..

get my eyes rejuvenized with the beautiful scenery of Taiwan
get my tummy treated with the local delicacies
get my body recharged with the sauna and spa.. =D

and i said YES! =)

14 friends,
 each holding a balloon
 spelled WILL U MARRY ME?
 and him holding 99 roses and a ring
 there they stood the big Qs was asked and i said YES, I DO!

the teary us, both being touched by the moment 

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 post excitement: i am grateful of meeting him in life. he might not be the most romantic man, but he does romantic stuff at the right time which touched the deepest part of my heart. love you, my dear..

 not forgetting the group of supporting friends, who witnessed the blooming of this relationship and developing into the next phase. thank you, my dear housemates, kalyana mitra and friends. i love u all too! =)

to express love..

today sis and i hugged mum.. this might sound ordinary to many of u but not in our conservative family.. i am truly glad that i have this chance.. we love u mummy, and u must start to love urself..

new year new start

Feb 2012, the beginning of the Dragon Year officially ended the work in KK Simpang Durian starting the new working environment in Hospital Tuanku Jaafar, Seremban after about 4 months of KK life, i hope i still can adapt to the busy life in hospital and hope mummy can be healthy and strong..