Norfolk Coast Weekend

We took a well deserved weekend in Norfolk Coast with 6 other friends. Needless to say we thoroughly enjoyed the company, plenty of sun and long walks by the glorious sea and dunes. It felt we caught the tail of summer before the autumn / winter months kick in. We stayed in Burnham Market which is close to everything we wanted to see and do. It was a lovely little village with a nice bakery (opens Mon to Sat at 8am) where we got our fresh bread and croissants from. There are a couple of nice pubs and restaurants in the area as well but we didn’t get a chance to visit them all because we were out and about during the day and stayed in for all evenings for dinner and games.

So the top five highlights of the trip:

  1. Brancaster beach – rather isolated but lovely sandy beach no doubt. Great for sunset but not for sunrise.
  2. Holme Sand Dunes – long walks with blowing sand dunes. Holme also makes a popular kite surfing spot because of its wind condition. For lunch, we went to a nearby pub called The White Horse. Being a vegetarian with lots of other food constraints, I stucked to my boring salad (I’m not complaining!) so I can’t comment on the local cuisine served at the pub. But based on the “yummmm”s I heard at our table, their Sunday Roast and Fish and Chips must have been pretty good. For the less fussy veggie eaters, don’t be disappointed, there is a veggie lasagne option for you.
  3. Seals basking in Blakeney. We took a bean boat to watch the seals. The boat departed from Morston Quay and we waited till 4.45pm before we could head out because the tide was slow coming in. Disregarding the tide and weather condition, I would suggest to bring your waterproof jackets because I was almost drenched in sea water if AL hadn’t offered me her spare raincoat.
  4. Rainbow in Snettisham Bird Reserve. We were awarded with the sight of a huge  rainbow when half the group decided to turn back after a third of the way because we were completely shattered after a long day’s walk. I barely made it back to the car let alone continue the entire journey. The Reserve is an estuary for more than 100,000 birds which I never got to see. Along the way, the other half of the group who stayed behind came across some hardcore bird watchers, silently sitting with their tripods and multimillion times zoom lenses / binoculars. My friends merely caught dots of thousands of birds flocking to the Reserve at a distance on their SLRs – possibly resembling the birds I gladly missed.
  5. Great company topped it all! We bonded well over cooking, game of charades and pictionary – all in all just having a good laugh. Not forgetting MC’s infamous quote from the trip: “I put double layer protection of Durex on my toilet seat” when describing his toilet hygiene. What he actually meant was Andrex (the toilet paper). It is sooooo him to make a reference mistake like this one.

Though Wells-Next-The-Sea was one of the more popular seaside town, I was less impressed by it. It was too commercial for my liking. Saying this, it looks great for families with little children where they can safely build sandcastles and splash in the sea water with a coast guard lookout. Also, there’s a caravan park within easy reach to the beach. So, I can see the appeal for different holiday makers but just not for me. After being in crowded and congested London, you just want to getaway from the noise, people and pollution, and just enjoy the fresh air and nature (even for a short while).

One thing we had to get use to was the opening hours of the local shops and couldn’t refrain from shopping in Sainsbury. We were so used to the 24hrs and Sunday opening hours in London that we forgotten the convenience of living in a big city.

FYI – we stayed at St. Georges cottage which we booked through Kett Country Cottages and we were all very happy with it. The cottage was of high quality and was well equipped including dishwashing liquid and tablets; salt and pepper and cooking utensils with full ceramic hob and double oven.

What makes 100%?

My mum sent me this – she must have regretted not teaching me the right ‘values’! 😉

Here is a little something  that is indisputable mathematical logic…Remember, this is a strictly mathematical viewpoint. It goes like this:

What Makes 100%? What does it mean to give MORE than 100%? Ever wonder about those people who say they are giving more than 100%? We have all been to those meetings where someone wants you to give over 100%. How about achieving 103%? What makes up 100% in life?

Here’s a little mathematical formula that might help you answer these questions:

If:
A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
is represented as:
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26

Then:

H-A-R-D-W-O-R-K
8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

and

K-N-O-W-L-E-D-G-E
11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

and,

A-T-T-I-T-U-D-E
1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

But,

B-U-L-L-S-H-I-T
2+21+12+12+19+8+9+20 = 103%

AND, look how far ass kissing will take you.

A-S-S-K-I-S-S-I-N-G
1+19+19+11+9+19+19+9+14+7 = 118%

So, one can conclude with mathematical certainty, that while Hard work and Knowledge will get you close, and Attitude will get you there, it’s the Bullshit and Ass kissing that will put you over the top.

There goes to show how many incompetent people in high-flying post who don’t know what they are doing! 😉

Guilty…

I’ve given this blog another facelift just to dampen down the guilt for neglecting it. The pang of guilt came when I was reading one of my oldest friend’s post describing “blogging to being in a relationship” which in turn she read from another blogger (it seems like this is turning out to be a chain posting). Reflecting on this, my ‘relationship’ with my blog has definitely died after a lack of TLC for the last year – out of sight, out of mind.

So here I am trying to rekindle the spark of what’s remaining. I’ve put lots of things on hold for the past year simply because I was finding my bearings in my new work life and blogging happen to be one of them. I have so many things I need to get back into especially my sewing. So will keep you posted!

Blogging vs. tweeting

A pang of guilt tells me I’ve been neglecting this blog. There are so many things happening in my life at the moment that it’s difficult to know where to start. I’ll probably get to writing it another day. 😉

Managing a blog and trying to keep the content up-to-date is quite a job itself especially when writing doesn’t come naturally for me. I admire those bloggers whose words flow from the very touch of their finger tips. That’s why these days I’ve got hooked tweeting instead. And it makes blogging seems a thousand miles away. Though tweeting is limited to 140 characters, it works perfectly fine for me who couldn’t well put thoughts into expressions in the first place. That’s why blogging has lost its appeal to me these days. Saying this, I still come back time and time again to this blog because I still appreciate the power of words and writings.

Although tweeting is a form of very short blogs, at times it does feel more like “shout outs”. When blogging, I think the mind goes through a different progression when it’s trying to process the thoughts and conveying them into words. The experience can be quite a powerful one for an individual when those thoughts can be expressed into something tangible. Tweeting for me serves more like a stream of consciousness flowing through and you’re gathering everyone’s thoughts and opinions by the minute which itself can be overwhelming at times. But I guess the beauty of tweeting is that it changes the dynamic of information because you choose who and what to read. It’s a powerful social media. I remember Eurovision happening a couple days ago. As I don’t own a TV or a TV card, I was able to follow the minute-by-minute update from Wossy and my mate Dame on Twitter – all just by sitting behind the screen.

I’m probably riding on the waves of the latest fad but it’s proving to be lots of fun. Happy tweeting tweet-dledums and tweet-dledees!

Viet Nam

JC finally made it back to Vietnam after three decades. The growing up pain of assimilating to the West and rejecting anything of the East was put to rest as he finally embraced his roots and heritage. Needless to say, he’s the first of his generation to return to Vietnam because most of his siblings and cousins couldn’t see what Vietnam has to offer.

Here are some snapshots from our trip in December last year.

traffic in hanoi

First day we set foot in busy Hanoi, what do we see? Motorbikes. It takes some practice and most of all courage to cross these roads. Useful tip: Always walk in a constant pace when crossing – the motorcyclists are experts in maneuvering themselves around you. Many a times, I thought I was close to seeing my own death but here I am, still in one piece writing about it. It becomes relatively easy when you get the hang of it on day 2. So, don’t fret!

hoan kiem lake

Hoan Kiem Lake: The city jolts up to an early start. It’s worth waking up early for a walk around the lake for a glimpse of the local life. Groups of people from all ages practising Tai Chi, Qi Gong, Kung Fu, weight-lifting, badminton… can be seen scattered around the lake.

junkboat

Halong Bay: We spent 3 days and 2 nights on a junk called The Jewel of Bay. If you’re looking for some quiet time to yourselves, I would recommend going with a smaller junk, though it can be a bit pricier, it’s still worth it as bigger boats can be packed with enthusiastic or sometimes noisy tourists. We had a really relaxing and easy time – we swam, kayaked, lounged around the deck reading and visited numerous caves and floating villages… On one of the nights, we had the whole to boat to ourselves because there were a few cancellations. So, it felt like we chartered the junk at a fraction of the price.

halongbay

There are thousands of limestone rock formations dotted around Halong Bay. The weather forecast and the tide varied from day-to-day in Halong Bay and can be unpredictable at times. We were lucky to catch the sunny spells during our visit in December. Some people we met were not as fortunate and they end up having to stay in their cabins as it was too wet and cold to truly enjoy the boat experience.

halong bay

The population here survives on fishing and selling trinkets, food and drinks to the tourists. Kids as young as four are seen rowing the small boats with their feet, selling seashells from one junk to another.

farm vietnam

Paddy fields seen through most part of Vietnam. We went in the dry season so no photos of beautiful lush green paddy fields.

langson

We visited JC’s birth place – Langson. It’s located in the North of Vietnam, near the border of China and Vietnam. We spent one night with his extended family and went round the city on motorbikes. We visited the street where JC grew up and where they ran the family business on the main street. So, it was not surprising when we visited the main street, we met people who knew of his family.

ethnic ladies langson

Some of the ethnic ladies selling some potent looking drinks. The people up north are very fond of their drinks – they toast to breakfast, lunch and dinner and the ladies do it as best as the men.

Where have I been?

It’s been quite some time since I last posted. I’ve been around but not quite here. That’s all. So, what have I been up to?

  • Quit my job last Dec in the midst of the financial meltdown and have embarked on the route of a self-proclaimed freelancer.
  • Traveled to Vietnam and Cambodia – both a heart felt trip.
  • Spent some proper quality time with my families and not the usual touch-and-go trips I tend to do. All three siblings flew in from different corners of the world for our annual reunion with our folks.
  • Met up with old mates from school and college. The last time I saw some of them was probably a decade ago and lots have changed since then – some balding; some embraced parenthood; some still look just as good if not better; some still the way they are… and yet, when we got together, it was as if the lost years in between just mended itself. We joked, laughed, gossiped whilst reminiscing our yesteryear.
  • Celebrated Christmas, both New Year and Chinese New Year! I know… it’s an extended holiday for me!
  • Ate to my hearts content. I demanded all food possible from Mama’s kitchen.
  • Went white water-rafting with my cousins. I think it’s the stepping-into-30-syndrome that brought about a more adventurous Bing.

And now after two full months of fun and laughter, I’m back to the cold grey London. It takes a bit of getting used to after all those sun, beautiful warm smiles and swaying palm trees. Who says everything got to last? I enjoyed it while it lasted and now it’s a whole new chapter for me.

Smile in the face of crisis

There’s enough bleak in the economy and financial sector as it is and I don’t plan on contributing to the gloom and doom of the financial crisis. You can read and indulge yourself on the headline grabbers on newspaper and Internet to your hearts content! So, since I cannot help injecting billions of dollars I thought let me inject some smiles instead…

Humour 1:

Following the problems in the financial sector in the UK, uncertainty has now hit Japan.

In the last 7 days Origami Bank has folded, Sumo Bank has gone belly up and Bonsai Bank announced plans to cut some of its branches.

Yesterday, it was announced that Karaoke Bank is up for sale and will likely go for a song, while today shares in Kamikaze Bank were suspended after they nose-dived.

While Samurai Bank is soldiering on following sharp cutbacks, Ninja Bank is reported to have taken a hit, but they remain in the black.

Furthermore, 500 staff at Karate Bank got the chop and analysts report that there is something fishy going on at Sushi Bank where it is feared that staff may get a raw deal.

Humour 2:

Quote of the day (from a trader): “This is worse than a divorce. I’ve lost half my net worth and I still have a wife.”

(LB, thanks for sending this!)

Our garden

I promised a few friends to post some photos of the latest development of our garden. We spent most of the summer doing it up in a few stages and it’s still an ongoing project. We can’t take credit for the work because the builders did most of it. We simply cleared the garden out.

The garden was in a such a mess before that it must as well be a jungle. At least, we can sit in the garden now and not be covered in weeds. We still haven’t got round planting anything at the back of the garden yet as I’ve had a thought to make it into a vegetable patch. The word to emphasise here is ‘thought’ and that doesn’t necessary mean action. These days JC’s been on my back about this because the fertile soil is becoming home to the weeds once again!

I have to admit that I’m not great with the garden. It’s JC who’s been looking after it. If the garden was to be put under my care, I think it would have easily return to its previous state and all the hardwork would have gone down the drain. It never once crossed my mind that he would get into gardening. Who would thought an IT geek like him would enjoy gardening… Life’s full of surprises.

Phase 1: Cleared out weeds in the garden (it was more than a feet high). We got rid of all the blackberries and a tree bang in the middle of the garden but kept the apple tree, plum tree and two other shrubs

Phase 2: The builder removed the old turf, cleared 4″ of soil (added compost and topsoil) and lay new turf

Phase 3: Voila! This is how the garden look now with newly laid sandstone tiles in patio and new lawn.

Blame game

Blame, blame, blame…

When things are going wrong, we find someone or something to blame – it’s always the other person, the weather, the government and the rest of the world to blame! The blame culture is so strongly embedded in our society that it becomes a way of life.

I’m just as guilty as the rest because I play the blame game whenever and wherever it suits me. It’s much easier to point a finger at someone or something than to face my own ‘demons’ because by blaming someone for my actions, it gives me temporary comfort that the pain was caused by another person and they should pay for what they’ve done. However, blaming is such that it leads us free falling into the pit of misery and robs us of happiness. How? Starting from blaming, it open doors to complaining and nagging, and by the time we know it, we become one grumpy old man and old lady! Oh my! I would have to change my blog to Everyday of Grumpy Bing! What a sight, a granny blogging – not just any old granny but a really cool one… 😉

Just some random thoughts – this is me still wide awake at 3am after taking the wrong medication for my flu. Instead of taking the normal flu tablet which was supposed to knock me out, I took Lemsip Cold & Flu Max which contained caffeine… who on earth would wanna put that stuff in flu tablets?!

OK enough for now. Good nite and good morning.

A breath of fresh air

Everyday of Bing needed a breath of fresh air. The layout of the previous one looked dull and monotonous. It felt like I was writing about grave experiences. I had no idea what came to me in the first place to select such dead colour for the blog. Probably I was going through a taking-myself-too-seriously phase where my mood was drawn to such dead uninspiring colours.

So I decided it’s about time to change by adding a bit of snazz and colour to the walls and fixtures of the blog. It’s amazing what colours can do and immediately the blog sprung to life again… (Hmmm… not sure about the ‘again’ bit because it wasn’t there in the first place to begin with)